美国康乃狄克州爆发重大校园枪击血案前几天，凶嫌亚当？蓝札（Adam
Lanza）的母亲南西（Nancy）告诉朋友，儿子的状况「恶化」，說她「快要失去他了」。
英国「每日邮报」（Daily
Mail）报导，这名消息人士說他和54岁的南西是康州新镇（Newtown）1间酒吧的「酒友」，几天前和南西聊天时听到她这番话。
亚当？蓝札14日朝母亲南西头部开了数枪後，驱车前往桑迪胡克小学（Sandy Hool Elementary
School）滥射，杀害20名儿童和6名成人。
这名酒友知道亚当有问题，南西提到儿子时，比较喜欢谈长子莱恩（Ryan）的事情，鲜少提到亚当。
他也說，亚当有自残倾向。
他告诉每日邮报：「南西目光垂下，看著玻璃杯說『我不知道，我担心我快要失去他了。』」
「她說状况变得更糟。她没办法和他沟通。」
他說这不是南西第1次和他谈到儿子的问题。
他提到，约1年前，「南西告诉我，亚当用打火机烧自己皮肤，烧自己的脚踝手臂之类的，好像想要感觉到些什么」。
他說，南西本週稍早說的话似乎预示了这起悲剧。
「很奇怪，她从来没有认真讨论亚当的事，她主要都在讲大儿子（莱恩）。我知道她还有个儿子，但她从来不会讲太多他的事。」
「她看起来很困扰。她垂下目光盯著玻璃杯，缓慢地說话。」
「我问她有没有找人看看亚当，她說她有。」
他說，南西平常是个快乐的女人，这番忧郁的对话很不像她的作风。
这名酒友說，这段谈话被一通电话打断，他掛了电话之後两人就换了话题。
他說南西是波士顿红袜（Red Sox）的死忠球迷，会买季票去芬威球场（Fenway Park）看球，也是个热爱打猎的乡村女孩。
这名酒友知道南西「至少有数十把」枪械，大多是大型步枪，但不知道有手枪。他說：「亚当9岁的时候学会开步枪。他们会去射击练习场。」
他說，南西向来小心管理枪械。「南西是个负责任的拥枪者。她也教导儿子如何负责任地使用枪械，这很重要。」
他也說，南西和前夫的关系不好。「她不太谈前夫的事，但我知道他们处得很不好，我想她离婚後从没见过他。」
Witnesses say Lanza was going from room to room shooting people, after first killing the principal Dawn Hochsprung and the school psychologist Mary Sherlach execution-style when they confronted him in the hallway
Nancy's friends recalled a time when Adam was ill, he didn't want his mother to be in his room with him so she slept outside the door on the carpet all night but would call to her to make sure he was there
Innocent once: Gunman Adam Lanza was just another fresh-faced student once, described by peers as shy but intelligent
Outsider: Former classmates remember Lanza walking through school dressed in black, carrying a black briefcase.
Nancy Lanza's home in Newtown, Connecticut, was raided after 2 pm on Friday and she was found shot dead from an apparent gunshot wound to the face
Home: The $1.5million Sandy Hook house where Adam Lanza lived with his mother Nancy before gunning her down inside on Friday ahead of his ruthless killing spree
Happier days: An old, lonely children's slide sits on the lawn of the impressive white property echoing merrier times at the Lanza household
Off-limits: The road, which had been closed off since Friday evening is still considered to be part of a crime scene and as such police were prohibiting members of the press to speak to any of the Lanza's neighbors
Home: Peter Lanza, the father of Adam Lanza, lives in Stamford, Connecticut, pictured, but hasn't been home since Friday
Photographs released of the young victims of Friday's shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School reveal 18 of the 20 smiling faces of the innocent boys and girls whose lives were so tragically cut short.
Killer: Adam Lanza shot and murdered 27 people Friday, 20 of them schoolchildren