女婿 ---舒明

● A 太太來電說,她下個月初要回大陸了,可能半年後再回來看看,我問她為什麼這麼突然,在電話裡突聽到一聲長嘆!

四年前,她女兒要生第二胎,她就提早來了美國照顧女兒一家,她愛女心切,認為自己仍有精力,也不算太老,可以勝任一切家務事。

她知女兒實在太忙了,下了班還得忙著張羅晚餐給丈夫孩子吃,總是趕得好辛苦,她的先生從來不會幫忙家務,飯來張口、茶來伸手,給服侍慣了,做媽媽的知道女兒家的生活方式,何況正懷著第二胎,心力負擔太重,於是就趕來了。她總是一手攬起全職,減輕女兒的辛苦,好讓女兒安心上下班。

這四年間,她總是美國、大陸兩邊跑,因家中老伴不習慣美國的生活不肯來,兒子在上班,家中沒有主婦打理、照料,生活都打亂了,因而來回奔波著。

最近確實感到累了,兩邊無法顧全,不放心家,又不放心女兒,使她日夜煎熬著。

其實最大的因素,她的女婿從來不懂尊重人,只會以自己的生活模式牽制著家人,自私、冷酷又霸道。她女兒不知是否麻木了?只會逆來順受,還事事順著他,讓他更是唯我獨尊、傲慢透了。岳母只有耕耘不求收穫,默默的做,為人女婿認為理所當然。

小外孫出生到現在,都是外婆一手帶大,還時常背著孫子做家務事,她忘了自己,只一心一意把孫子照顧得無微不至,偶爾小孩不乖任性些,說是給外婆寵壞的,他就對孩子大聲吼叫,害得小孫子躲到角落發抖,外婆心痛不已。

如今小孫子四歲了,送去托兒所過團體生活,有了小朋友的玩伴,定性不少,她放心回去了,她說回去後要好好照顧老伴和兒子,更要好好補償他們,也早日為兒子完成終身大事。

她六十六歲來此,今年已七十歲,她說也該在女兒家退休了,又一直說,要回家的感覺真好。

末了,她最失望又痛心的是,十多年來,女婿從來沒叫過她一聲媽。

/舒明    2006-10-08  worldjournal

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