I thought She must be acted like a queen in home, dont repect her husband, he can endure just because of children, that is why he can say : I am not going to let that bitch ruin me for the next 30 years.”
Man want to be a king in his loved woman's heart!
noso 发表评论于
醉请风: being treated like a kid does not mean being taken care like a kid. There is a respect issue involved in it.
醉请风 发表评论于
If he doesn’t like the way she treats her, he should have talked to her and let her know his thoughts. If he did and didn't help much, then he would have divorced long time ago for his sake. Why wait till now. I guess somehow he still wants to be taken care in certain way until her replacement comes. Isn’t it fair?
This is only my point of view, in a marriage, character match is the key. If control and being control are not balanced in a family, the marriage form will be collapsed eventually, it's only a matter of time.
noso 发表评论于
Melly, you have made a great point. Right on the money! Thanks.
melly 发表评论于
It is not unusual. Men like being treated as a king, which gives them much confidence and vanity.This might be a kind of love men tend to believe. Most likely, men hate to be treated like a kid. This is still a men-dominant world. The concept of marriage is different between American culture and Chinese culture. Western people tend to follow their hearts instead of sacrifice themselves.Maybe this is much humane. Just my humble oppinion.
