80% 的女人都经历过刻骨铭心的失恋 , 婚前或者婚后 . 没有经历的一位好友说她可不想这种事发生在自己身上 , 我不知道 . 我为她祝福 . 可是 , 鸟死了 , 才能成凤凰 . 谁说的：没有过去怎么能知道未来。 多年以后 , 当所有的撕心裂肺的痛成为记忆 , 似乎时间留给我更多的是都对爱痛彻的领悟 , 对一首殇歌痛痛的喜爱 , 对人生悲剧美感的体验。What is hard to endure is sweet to recall，这何尝不是一种丰富的人生经历。当你听一首歌，它能触摸到你的心中最柔软的那一点，无论痛还是喜，我都觉得美。而往往越是体味痛，越是让你揪心，就越是感觉到浓浓的爱，听听 Dido 的这首歌，即便我早已远离这种状态，它还是如此让我的泪水溢出。。。
Who Makes You Feel
I don't touch you the way I used to
And I don't call and write when I’m away
We don't make love as often as we did do
What couldn’t wait now waits and usually goes away
Who makes you feel the way that I make you feel
Who loves you and knows you the way I do
Who touches you and holds you quite like I do
Who makes you feel like I make you feel
I don’t mind if you come home late
And I don’t ever ask you where you’ve been
I just assume if there’s a problem, you’d tell me
But listen and think when I say, oh but listen and think when I say
Who makes you feel the way that I make you feel
Who loves you and knows you the way I do
Who touches you and holds you quite like I do
Who makes you feel like I make you feel
Being weak, when I am strong
Being seen, for who you are
Being sad and lost but not alone
But listen and think when I say, oh but listen and think when I say
Who makes you feel the way that I make you feel
Who loves you and knows you the way I do
Who touches you and holds you quite like I do
Who makes you feel like I make you feel
by Dido