今天看的一个病人，86岁的老太太，保养得非常好，思路敏捷，风趣幽默，穿着传统的红色圣诞假日毛衣，还别了一个特别的圣诞铃铛的胸针，为她做体检的时候，铃铛丁丁地响，很有意思。她19岁结婚，他们的结婚纪念日就在最近。老太太说起当年的求婚故事，还是细节栩栩如生。 她的先生，那时候的男朋友，带她去挑圣诞树，说是放在他的房间里，她挑了以后，发现那棵树上有一枚戒指，她先生说，marry me, I don't want to go home and spend this Christmas without you. 我听得出了神，手里的听诊器也忘记了。老太太笑眯眯地说，we have had a great life.
I made a excel file called " our days" to remember each important days in our life since we have been together.We are going through the hardest part these days and we both are very tired. Days ago, it was my husband's birthday. I bought two small pieces of square cakes (to spend less money) and forgot we didn't have match to light up the candle after his late back from work. And I forgot to take pictures for him and the cake as usual.It was a worst "improtant day" we had so far. I decided to buy another big cake and make things beautiful to re-spend this birthday. But it was aborted due to reasons. Yesterday, I decribed that day in detail in that file. At the end, I wrote that I believe it would be the worst DAY in our future. Our DAYS will not be worse than that. Then I sent this document to my husband--I never showed him this file before. His eyes was red and he asked me, do you really think that day was that bad? I said, yes. But that would be the worst we have. Our days only could be better. We should be happy for that. When we are as old as your grandma, we could read this file together again and smile at each other. (ps, his grandma is over 90 now).
黄大皇 发表评论于
Why I always forgot the "u"? 郁闷
黄大皇 发表评论于
There is always something beatiful in life. Music, movie, people, relationship... But for this 86 year old lady, the lift itself is beatiful!
Dalaoshu 发表评论于
I don't know what to say about YiCan.
There is always some hard time for everyone. Wish everyone happy and healthy , especially in this holiday season.
Hope he can get the help and get well.
Please refer to the following story:
http://www.ruanyifeng.com/blog/2006/11/the_story_of_yang_dan.html
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Dalaoshu 发表评论于
At last your new post is here! I've been waiting for a week :)
I am so jealous of you and your parents.
My parents are like those of Rachel's in "Friends". They have been fighting since I was young. I expected them to get on better when they grew old. But, to my disappointment, the older they are, the worse.
Now I guess they speak to each other no more than 3 times a week, anyone can imagine that?
I feel more despair when I had some problem in my marriage. I would think, have I inherited those personality disorder from them?
Life is never easy. I am so happy that you can share your stories here. I hope I can also bring smile and happiness to others.
zzhhjj 发表评论于
"一灿是一名六岁的男孩，两年前，一灿被诊断得了急性淋巴细胞白血病，从此，伴随小一灿的是无休无止的化疗.就在前几天，一灿在接受骨髓穿刺的时候，髓象显示一灿病情复发，这意味着以前的治疗前功尽弃，更为可怕的是，孩子有了抗药性，化疗比以前更有难度，需要打一种5000多元一针的进口药，才能保住孩子的生命。而且由于毒副作用很大，孩子会遭遇感染，最好的根治的办法，就是骨髓移植."
I know america has more mature technology to treat lukemia(?), and you are a doctor, if you can help from your medical point of view, it would be greaat.
This site has all the information, and yican's mom also shows there. Thanss a lot.
