A few days ago, wacthed 'Everybody Loves Raymond'. One clip clicked me. Raymond's mom complained she lived in a loveless marriage. His dad was so upset and broke her new glasses. Mom was, then, thinking he loved her, even he ignored her comments, ignored her feelings, ignored her all, but he loved her because his reaction over her loveless marriage. I felt that is so womenish thinking. Looks like you have to receive such reactions to prove the love you dreamed. I can see myself in it too.