没人会承认自己是个愚蠢的人，但我们现在也好，过去也罢，都或多或少曾经干过很愚蠢的事。
我们在待人接物方面，在自己做还是不做某件事，相信还是不喜欢某个人，往往很自信，觉得自己跟聪明。除非有件突发事件发生，使我们恍然大悟，我们是不会认识到我们实际上一直很愚蠢的。你会责骂自己怎么会那么愚蠢。而实际上，你可能从一开始就很愚蠢。
没人想当蠢人，那本身就是个愚蠢的事。但我们所有人在判断上都会有自己的局限性和盲目性。我们想当然地把别人和事按照我们的意愿来判断，认为那件事应该会怎样发展，那个人应该是什么样的人。而现实总是把我们的幻想击的粉碎！
所以说是我们对于人和事的判断有问题。
那怎么办呢？
实际上也没什么办法。因为我们在待人接物方面还会犯错误。比如说，恋爱中的你会象一个傻瓜。如果你全身心地爱上一个人，那么现在你应该知道自己有多傻了吧。你知道你为什么会这样爱一个人还会受到伤害吗？ 因为你一直很愚蠢！
有什么办法避免愚蠢吗？
我的建议是拿自己开开心，吸取教训，继续前进。
记住了，没什么大不了的。没有比你健康的身心还要重要的事。正因为我们愚蠢过，我们才越来越聪明。
没错，我这辈子也干过不少非常愚蠢的事情。不过回过头来看看，我要说那些蠢事都是我生命的一部分。过去的事是不可能改变的。实际上，能改变我也不会去改变它。如果你以不同的心态再来看看，那些蠢事实际上还挺逗的。每当我想起这些事的时候，常常会笑出声来：我怎么那么愚蠢啊。
不要让这些事情来烦恼自己。 不要对自己太苛刻了。没人能永远是聪明的。谁要是把你给涮了，早晚他/她也会有被涮的时候。
所以，随它去吧。明白了吗？ 哈哈哈哈！
Are you stupid?!
None of us would consider him or herself a stupid person, but we all are , or have been stupid, some times, some where, some how.
We all think we are bright and smart about things we do or don't as well as people we trust or dislike. We won't realize how stupid we have been until somethimg comes up and wakes us up, Oh shit, how stupid I was, you say. Actually, you might just have been stupid since day one.
None of us would like to be stupid simply because it is a very stupid thing to do. But we all have our limit and blindness in our judgement. We'd like to think people and things the way we think they are, but the reality always hits us very hard.
So the problem really lies in our own judgement towards people and things.
What can we do about it?
Not very much actually, because we will make mistake about people and things again and again. For instance, If you are in love, you may act like a fool. If you heartfully have loved someone then you should know by now that how stupid you have been. Do you know why you are the one who got hurt from the relationship? Because you have been stupid.
Is there anything we can do to avoid being stupid?
My suggestion is to laugh at yourself, learn from your mistake, and move on.
Remember, no big deal. Nothing is more important than your healthy body and mind. We become smart and smarter because we have been stupid.
Yes, I have done some stupidest things in my life. However, looking back, I have to say although what I did was very stupid but that's part of my life. Nothing I can change back. As a matter of fact, I won't change back at all , actually it is very funny if you look at it with different mind set. I laugh at myself many times when I think about those stupid things that I have done in the past. Man, I was stupid!
Don't let those things upset you. Don't be too hard on yourself. No one can be smart forever. Whoever might have outsmarted you last time, will have his or her turn of being stupid sooner or later.
So, whatever, you know what I mean? hahahaha.
