Have not visited this site for a long time. Recently I read an interesting line and thought I should write it down: Bitterness harms the one who bears it more than the one who deserves it. Personally I thought it should be: Bitterness harms the one who bears it more than the one who causes it. Just a minor change. Fortunately I thought I always have a selective memory: I remember things beautiful much longer than those less pleasant. Maybe bad memory has intrinsically shorter life time. Wish this is universally true!