Don't want to push myself

Don't know when it's the time for a women to get a peaceful life.
I don't want to push myself to hard work and maybe it's too lazy and no goal for a life. But I only want to enjoy life itself. That doesn't mean I don't need go to work. I still need a decent salary to keep my life standard. But I don't want to move to the high standard. Don't want to push myselft to hard work.

Am I old?