回复快乐的兔子的评论:
快乐的兔子，为个我发帖特意注册个名字，真让我感动，更谢谢你的肺腑之言！对不起，一直没来看这一页，回帖晚了。
我不知道我今后会怎样，至今为止还不错。有高兴的时候有难过的时候也有流泪的时候。但像你说的，尽量不在人前流泪。有时做不到，我也不勉强。。。
写这些美好的回忆我没有心痛，因为它们把我带回了那些美好的日子里。这一切好像就发生在昨天，好像我们还在一起， 而这一切跟现在都没有关系。。。
我怕写大雪生病后的事情，我想那时我会心痛，会流泪。我不知道我有没有勇气去写。。。
我的一位同事告诉我："deal one day a time" 希望我不用在四年内每天都要对自己说这句话。。。
真心地谢谢你！
HuiZhi 发表评论于
回复hairycat的评论:
Finally you are back. I noticed your comments were deleted, so I have been waiting for your back.
What happened, why WXC blocked you?
回复Huizhi的评论:
WXC blocked my IP so I could not come to respond to you, sorry. My blog address is: http://blog.wenxuecity.com/myblog.php?blogID=38046
WXC deleted all of my articles. I'll have to re-post them. Sorry, little monkey.
Huizhi 发表评论于
回复hairycat的评论:
Thanks for your good words.
How I want to give you a hug. Let's cherish our every day and appreciate all what we have.
Thanks for your encouraing me to open a Blog. Actaully I opened one in Sina in 2006, but I couldn't find its address after just writing one article. After I read your message, I tried to find it again, you know what? I even find it. So very appreciated your message. Here is the address "http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_49675bd4010002w1.html". Would you please give me your Blog address?
Thanks to DA Xue who lets us have a chance to know each other. How I wish he is still around us.
wxcqq 发表评论于
回复Huizhi的评论:
From some where i read Daxie's DOB is 11/06/57. He was not 78, i don't know why his personal file says he was 78 yrs old...If he were at that age when he passed, we all would have felt a little bit better...
When you love someone, try to change that person, you just love the way he/she is. That is actually very American value. Not only it shows your respect to that person, but also it tells you yourself are a very cultivated person... We Chinese people like to impose your own thoughts and value to your offspring and your spouse, but most Americans don't. That is the difference I feel in our daily life...
回复hairycat的评论:
You ask a good question. Xue Sao should think about it seriously. Love also means protect the one you love. It is a common sense that alcohol destroys liver. It is Xue Sao's responsibility to stop Da Xue. Every of us loves Da Xue and cares about Xue Sao. I believe Xue Sao is strong enough to think about this topic and it is helpful for her to raise the lovely "little snow ball".
Sorry about my poor English. I wish I can type Chinese, but I can't type Chinese with the computer at hand.
Huizhi 发表评论于
回复hairycat的评论:
You ask a good question. Xue Sao should think about it seriously. Love also means protect the one you love. It is a common sense that alcohol destroys liver. It is Xue Sao's responsibility to stop Da Xue. Every of us loves Da Xue and cares about Xue Sao. I believe Xue Sao is strong enough to think about this topic and it is helpful for her to raise the lovely "little snow ball".
Sorry about my poor English. I wish I can type Chinese, but I can't type Chinese with the computer at hand.
Huizhi 发表评论于
回复美满心境的评论:
Why did you sound like you are a judge? Why Hairycat can't not ask the question? You thought only you love Da Xue?
wxcqq 发表评论于
回复大大雪球的评论:
I have been asking myself why I was so drawn to the story of Daxie, his life, his article, his poem, his passing and his wife’s touching story...never ever there was anything like that I was attracted to, and I even did not read Chinese that much any more. I was searching… there must be something… I finally found out today that Daxie and I share the same birthday Nov. 06…
I am so looking forward to reading your next story….You are a great lady.
美满心境，邻家玉妹，你们二位都让我很感激，我能体会到你们对我是何等关爱，何等体贴，小心翼翼。。。真心的谢谢你们！
其实，美满心境的贴一点都没有让我不舒服，我却感到很亲切。大雪总是调侃地说他处过一百多个女朋友。。。只是玩笑而已。他常常会把女性朋友夸张地说成女朋友。。。。无论是女朋友还是女性朋友我都不在乎，因为我知道她们和我不一样。 哈哈哈。。。
邻家玉妹，我和儿子都不错。他学习有进步，我工作也有点进展。这次出去开会带他去玩了玩，他还蛮高兴的。。。
邻居们常过来问问有什么事需要帮忙，对门的邻居特意过来告诉我说：“无论是半夜还是凌晨，家里有什么问题，水道，暖气，空调等等如出了问题一定要给我们打电话，在找人来自前，先给我们打电话”。她说她的丈夫在大学里搞设备维修，他很懂设备维修，也很喜欢。。。临走前还嘱咐我：“别忘了，无论是半夜还是凌晨。。。”
另一家邻居，全家出动帮我们剪过两次草了。我很感激，不知该怎么办，想给他们的两个男孩一点报酬，爸爸坚决反对，说：这是我们唯一能做的（This is the least we can do)。。。 现在我家的草坪比以前漂亮多了。。。
在单位,每天都有许多关怀的问候，和所有的人都HUG好几遍了。。。
Thank you for sharing your love stories. Read your six articles at once, now I understood --
What Cancer Can Do:
It can raise your faith.
It can strengthen your sense of humor.
It can create new friendships.
It can lift your spirit.
It can make you a hero.
It can enrich your family values.
It can teach you what's important.
It can give you strength.
It can help you count your blessings.
What Cancer Cannot Do:
It cannot cripple love.
It cannot shatter hope.
It cannot corrode faith.
It cannot destroy peace.
It cannot kill friendships.
It cannot suppress memories.
It cannot silence courage.
It cannot invade the soul.
It cannot steal eternal life.
It cannot conquer the spirit.
Great articles, looking forward for mores.
Xulin 发表评论于
回复wxcqq的评论:
Will you be surprised that she is a professor at a university?
wxcqq 发表评论于
Not sure it would be rude to ask what you do for living... i am so amazed by the fact that your Chinese is still so good and beautiful... Do you have the chance to write Chinese for work?
Beautiful article, beautiful story, and beautiful people....
尔尔 发表评论于
"当年雪嫂的样子一定是像极了山口百惠...清纯美丽..."--what a beautiful image!
You wrote very good your love story.inspire,encourage.
take care yourself.
6898 发表评论于
I find that the ability for people to express themselves, verbally or in written form, through words, is an amazing thing. I find that words have the power to move me and invoke certain emotions within me. At times, while reading, I come across inspirational and beautiful quotes about so many different aspects of life and I have developed the habit of underlining them. When I hear something that affects me positively, I write it down. Nowadays I only need to revisit my favorite blogs to enjoy reading and experience their beauty. Words have the power to make people experience such joy or such pain. The most recent pieces to move me so immensely are Daxue and Baliao's blogs. Thank you, Sister Xue, for sharing such a beautiful life with us. Thank you, Baliao, for showing us such a wonderful friendship between you and Daxue. The world becomes better because of you.
