我心和影子还take it serious了,不过是一个小小的插曲风波,我的一点感触而已,哪有这么严重,要上升到人品的高度,呵呵。朋友确实比较累,但是他知道我们专程赶来为他庆祝,临时不来是不对的,女朋友不开心也是情有可原的,他们也没有大吵,一个在开车,一个等了几个小时,自然言语间有点不快。
所幸最后皆大欢喜。
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回复sunshadow的评论:
you didn't get my point:
both parties should take for granted that he/she should sacrifice for the good of the other; and should NOT take for granted that the other sacrifice for him/her. This is the meaning of love---mutual benefit
don't want to ruin the atmosphere, just to want make my point clear:
If she couldn't take care of her BF's friend in his absence; did yell at him on the phone in front of his friend even he had legit & uncontrollable reason of being late; then I don't think she consider her BF but herself as top priority. She's either immature or selfish.
I don't know the others, but I will not want such a GF for sure.
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nowadays it should be said "大多数女人常忽视在生活小节上的体贴,她们不知道爱的失去尽都在小小的地方"。
女性在社会和经济地位取得独立的同时,越来越少的考虑男性的感受,而将接受爱抚和让步take for granted (although 从男性角度来说确实应该 take for granted),殊不知爱情,只有单向的情感流动,又能闪烁多久?