It seems there is misunderstanding on my active approach. Being active is not the same as being overly aggressive on your approach. Active means, instead of acting like a sitting duck through the interview process, we should actively involved in the process, exchange ideas actively and thus, show your passion to the position for which your are applying.
Taking an active approach is not the same as being overly aggressive, this is the key. Be polite and nice when raising questions or giving out different opinions, always with a smile etc, will definitely help.
You are definitely right, over aggressive will yield negative. I never have suggested "不是一股脑的往前冲啊!".
Such kind of technique should be applicable to any industry, not limiting to WS.
Sorry for the confusion.