Most of a man's troubles stem from his inability to be alone. If he is happy by his own nature, he does not need a relationship. If he wants to, he can get into one. But he doesn't need a relationship to be happy.
Many people think aloneness is the same as loneliness. They are not the same. Loneliness is a disease. Aloneness is a capability.
If you feel lonely, you are miserable. If you need someone to be happy, you are no different from a beggar. A beggar on the street may begg for his food. You begg for your happiness.
If you are capable of being happy without anybody, you are a king within yourself. You can get into a relationship if you want to. But you don't have to be in one to be happy. That is freedom.
