I am also wondering what kind of couple is the perfect match? I just read your article that mentioned a very interesting game in your wedding and I think that it was indeed very meaningful! Trying to check myself with 理解,礼让,尊敬,互助, I think that I did ok so far, but sometimes there is a limitation. For example, my husband has a fatal weakness, constant impatience and complaining all the time, it is very frustrating for me to understand him!