Correction: What would other people say about you if what happened to Yang happened to you? From your story, I see a very high probability that your ex-boyfriend would take the same extreme action as you learned from your friend.
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Many people say it is not fair to Yang because she is no longer able to defend herself from any irrational bad words.
Now I have an interesting imagination. If you and/or your family members were killed by your ex-boyfriend, do you think what people would say about you?
You were talking about love. Do you truly think your ex-boyfriend ever loved you?
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>>痛心彻腹地感受双方父母的痛
We no longer know what was in Yang's mind and probably will never know what Zhu thought if he does not what to tell the truth, but we do know what we are thinking. I do not suspect that you 'broke' your heart when you thought of their parents as you wrote.
We should love every person on the earth as Jesus Christ pointed out 2009 years ago, including your enemies (if any) if they are willing to change. At the same time, one should not live for anyone else but oneself, not mother, not farther, not daughter, not son, etc.
This is another social issue we have to consider to improve: too much dependence between parents and their children who are older than 18. Ideally, their parents'daily lives should not change too much. We should treat every one in this world equally, not only our family members, but also others.
1. Chinese need Emotional Intelligence education urgently.
2. Chinese government should suspend 朱海洋's citizenship immediately! ...death penalty twice, from both US and China...
3. 李简单 must be a Lauzi's good student who has good taste in life.
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>>怎么得病怎么触发出来的,不在这场杨MM的悲剧范围内。
It is meaningless to discuss only on Yang's tragedy without learning from it and therefore to prevent any similar tragedy from happening in the future.
>>辨明他是个病人,报警、远离之
You can not call police just because you know someone has mental illness unless that person violates law. Also, it is truly not easy to know this in daily life. Look at Zhu's pictures and listen to what his friends say about him. Quite a normal person, wasn't he?
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Yang is the victim of Zhu's. Zhu is a victim of the society. No one is a born criminal. A truly kind person must has sympathy for Zhu while having sympathy for Yang. If we do not think of and solve the problem that caused Zhu to commit murder, then this will not be the last tragedy.
“山重水复疑无路,柳岸花明又一春”,and“大事化小,小事化了”。 Yang looks very smart and she might know all of these very well, but these are not going to work when you are dealing with people like Zhu.
Comments on hanfeng109's guessing:
1) 朱有精神病
If this is true, then what caused him to be ill mentally? It would be the social inequality.
2) 朱强奸了杨, 杨要报警, 朱杀人灭口
If Yang wanted to call police, she did not need to let him know. If Zhu raped Yang, then question is what caused him to do so. Keep in mind, Rape is essentially the same as murder. The deep reason would still be the social inequality.
3) 朱和杨上了床, 杨事后以强奸勒索,要毁了朱, 朱逼急了杀杨.
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Want to say something after reading your article, but do not know where to start...
When I saw Yang's picture, my feeling is: what a beautiful woman! what an unfortunate fate she had! Why did God make her run into Zhu? Why did not God send her to me? If so, then I would give her my unconditional help and love, then her life would be completely different.
I am currently thinking of something that will change the way people live on the earth. All of us will die someday. Someone dies as heavy as Tai Mountain, while someone dies as light as a fine feather. I want to split the world into different groups (or countries), and people can choose which group to live in. No conflict takes place within one group. My immediate goal is to split China into two parts, one for capitalism, and one for communism. People can freely choose capitalism or communism, of course, they can change their mind and move back and forth, but once they are in one group, they have to follow the rules of that group.
Almost all of the possibilities have been imagined to explain for Zhu's cruel behavior, but few tried to find the reason from the social inequality, which I believe is the main reason. If we do not solve this social problem, then do not surprise sooner or later another Zhu comes in our sight.
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回复husenqi2003的评论:谢谢您的肯定。归纳总结亦是精辟。
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回复pjx的评论:Actualy not many people know him and not many people know Yang either. It was just a guess and analysis based on the stories or articles on line.
I wouldn't dare to make any conclusion to Zhu's behaviou. His background, his life experience and his family culture may be played important part in this tragedy.