Wrote on October 1, 2009:
"She Passed Away”
My mother passed away on Monday afternoon at 1:30PM in Guangzhou time (when it was 12:30AM Monday, 9-28-09 in locat time). I learned it at 10:30AM on Monday after my 8AM class. I took 2 days off and spent Tuesday fasting and meditating, wishing her a smooth journey to join my father who passed away 3 years ago, and wishing for her to forgive me as I could not say goodbye to her and see her off.
She passed away with my two sisters by her side in the hospital, peacefully.
I grew up with her love. How I wish I could have held her hands in my own and let her know that I love her...
Friends reply:
~I am so very sorry to hear about your mom. Your written tribute to her is moving. Even though I never met your mom, I know she was proud of you.
I have been thinking of you and wanting to call. Will talk to you soon.
Love,
KP
~My deep condolence, O.
One thing to keep in mind is that she had good years of living with the children she loved, and I am sure she knew she was loved by her children.
If you want someone to talk to, I'll call you tonight. Let me know the best time to call.
Y
~I'm sorry to hear of your loss, O. Although you were not there when she passed, I'm sure she knows your love and devotion to her.
LM
~O:
I'm sorry for your loss. This is a difficult time, so try to treat yourself well, and rejoice that your mom enjoyed a long life.
MN
~Dear O,
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. The loss of a parent is so hard, and I think losing your mother -- if you are a daughter -- is a particular kind of agony that can only be fully understood by those of us who have lost our mothers. I can only imagine how difficult it must have been for you to be so far away, and my heart goes out to you. Take care, O.
MM
~Dear O,
Thank you for sharing this tender moment in your life. Your mother must have been a wonderful person to have raised such a kind and talented daughter. I will keep your family in my prayers.
Best of blessings,
TD
There are many more other cards and email messages from friends and colleauges. With their help, a small memorial scholarship was set up from donation/fundraising to honor my beloved mother, for which I feel deeply grateful, forever.
