3. Emotions Enmeshed
If you do not have healthy emotional boundaries with another, your emotional energies will often become enmeshed. As a result, with this aura dynamic you could end up feeling emotions which do not even belong to you. These emotional energies may actually come from another person. When this happens, the person to whom the emotions belong will be out of touch with their authentic emotional truth. And if someone else's emotions are coming into your aura, you will probably be overly emotional, emotionally erratic, and quite possibly irritable. On the other hand, if your emotions are going into someone else's aura, the reverse would be true.
When you have healthy boundaries with another, each of your energies remains distinct. There is room for you to have your own opinions and them to have theirs. Neither person will be forcefully pushing their energy into or over top of the other person's aura. You will feel your own authentic emotions and they will feel theirs. With healthy aura dynamics and boundaries, there is respect for each person's psychic space. Healthy boundaries support clarity, wellness, harmony, and validation of each person's uniqueness.
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The Molecular Relationship, Chapter Three -- The Marriage Of Atoms
For this treatise, it is important that we look upon ourselves not only as male and female in the physical sense, but also as male and female in the sense that we are two aspects of the divine energy of Purpose. We should see ourselves as separated energies that are working toward union.
Marriage, too, is much more than the joining of two physical persons; marriage is a universal order, a bonding relationship. It unites the male and female energies into a united whole. All male and female energies seek this marriage.
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Perhaps, due to such a uniqueness as man & woman, Paul -- An Apostle of Christ, in
1 Corinthians 14
has stated:
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As in all the congregations of the saints, 34women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. 35If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church.
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