Marriage can be Ugly

1/31/2011

Sometimes It's a nightmare to have a marriage with a divorced man, especially if he is mean. The house is under his name and he is not comfortable that I do not pay the mortgage. I told him to add my name under the house, then I can share the mortgage payment. But he does not want to do that. I said, ok, then you just pay your mortgage.

I was looking for a marriage with love, and I had no problem to share everything in the marriage. His attitude totally blows away my dream/expectation to a marriage.

At the same time, he is worried about his senior years and asked me many times - are you going to take care of me when I am old?