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same feeling, each time when I returned to China, it was always great to meet middle and high school classmates. Juan is actually quite lucky, like me in a small country in Europe; it is almost no chance to meet any alumni / lan yan zhi ji from China
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same feeling, each time when I returned to China, it was always great to meet middle and high school classmates. Juan is actually quite lucky, like me in a small country in Europe; it is almost no chance to meet any alumni / lan yan zhi ji from China
Being friends is easier than being a couple. 刘娟 doesn't expect his BF to excel as much as 杨小静, because she is better educated and confident than 杨小静. She can create her own future. 刘娟 hang on to 小七 for so long, despite he is not as good as her. She may not know what she really wants in a husband yet.
杨小静 puts the hope of her future entirely on 郑卫, so she must push him hard for a better life. This can work for some people, except 郑卫 is not the kind. Part of the problem is how Chinese are educated; 郑卫 doesn't know what he is really interested in, so he is not motivated in school. The story can be completely different if 郑卫 found out his passion and worked on it. So many talents are wasted because people didn't pursue their passion in life
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If郑卫刘娟are together, 刘娟may feel the same way that杨小静felt -- 郑卫is too lazy and lack motivation. 刘娟may feel secure with 郑卫, but she'll find 郑卫 doesn't really value the same thing as she values. She may push郑卫 the same way as杨小静does.