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To an abuser, everywhere is 痛处. An abuser can use everything as an excuse to start a new round of abuse and escalate the abuse. An abuser blames the victim 戳人痛处. It is an obedient training and control game. Little by little, the abuser takes away the victim’s self-esteem, free will to express, everything and anything… The victim’s vote doesn’t count at all in any DV household. As time goes by, the victim is brainwashed and put guilty feeling. Besides, the DV abuser is very manipulative. domestic abusers in any form are generally good at making others believe they are model citizens. DV is different from regular domestic argument.
