回复十年退休的评论:
For the GC, there are many ways to get it. Especially Zheng can give her that and Jing may get it herself, too, since she already had a job. You have to believe Jing really loves Jim above anything else. Jing may not have really loved before and Zheng was too young to understand. If this is really like you said Jim is 20 years older than Jing, that is tragedy for just getting a GC...
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回复imtheman的评论:
This is what we think at this moment. At that time, a GC might be worth all the sacrifice.
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回复wxcwxc2010的评论:
But Jing signed 婚前协议, she is not safe at all, not a good deal.邓文迪 married a billionaire, 杨帆 found a nobel laureate.
But I agree things happen. But doesn't mean Zheng turns out a winner in the end? He is younger and he can even find a younger wife...
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回复imtheman的评论:
To be honest with you (as this is Internet, nobody knows who i am), a lot of my father's students tried to seduce him. He was involved with several of them, and they were younger and younger, at least 20 years difference.
回复十年退休的评论:
To make sense of this, Jim has to be younger, such as in his mid-40s or less. 10-15 years difference probably ok. More than that is like father and daughter.
Yale University Ph.D., Biophysical Chemistry
1995 – 2001
Peking University M.S., Physical Chemistry
1992 – 1995
Peking University B.A., Chemistry
1988 – 1992
他毕业前后,IT已经有些不行了,泡沫破了。不是他刚来的时候。
静97年左右和BUTTMAN搞上了,BUTTMAN已经50多了,但美国人不是很显老
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回复于小芷的评论:
You are right. They are likely the victims of this wild man hunt. At first, feel upset that Jiang left Zheng. But in fact, if Zheng really got over it and became successful, Jing may be the bigger loser of the two. Jing will have a lot to accomplish to justify her decision, new social circle, culture difference, etc.; but Zheng is becoming another Jim, but younger.
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回复于小芷的评论:
从学龄上看,Huiming Li 不是政委,Li 95年毕业P大和来美的。从海大以前的回帖上看,政委应该是IT泡泡破的前后来美的。我记得有人说政委应该转专业,海大说没地方转,IT泡泡已经破了。
回复于小芷的评论:
This is insane. The yale professor is 69 now. If Jing married him 10 years ago, he still would be 59. Does not add up. BTW, is the professor still married?
If Zheng really lost Jing this way, he will be better off finding a new wife, either Juan or someone better than Jing. Is that difficult?