面试完毕，分析来分析去，都不会改变面试的结果。分析就算周五娱乐一下。
本周三会议有类似的case，hiring manager说了一大堆好话，最后没有拿到offer。非常想得到那份工作的求职者，觉得那些话就是暗示自己的表现令人满意，offer十拿九稳；旁观者一听，全是客套话，美国式的弯弯绕。
在我们那儿，今天有人说：“过两天来我家，咱们小聚一下喝两口。”礼拜天我不会真的去敲他家门，因为我们都知道，“两天”是虚指，这不是正是的邀请，分手时说的客套话，意思是“再见”。
在美国这儿，客套话也很多，咱们得理解言下之意，而不是简单地从字面理解。几个例子：
- You have the exact skills we are looking for
言下之意+：Yes, you have the skills on your resume, that's why we call upon you for this interview, however you still have to show me that you are able to do the job.Neutual
- You are qualified for this job
+ You may have the skills and experience, but I need to check if you have the personality, which makes you to fit in the team. Neutual.
- You have very good skills, you may qualify for other openings in our company, a manager from another group is interested to your background.
+ This could be a negative feedback. I don't really think you are a good fit, the truth might be there's no such opening at all, the reason I mentioned another opening, I just want to be nice and I am in good mood.
- I like your background, and I think you can easily fit in. This opening doesn't match your experience perfectly, but I will keep your resume, cause we are expanding and openings are coming out soon.
+ ops, I've deleted your resume.When there's a opening, you'd better apply again. Don't expect that I would remember your name at that time. Absolutely negative.
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面试的时候，不能被客套话迷惑而过于放松。拿到offer之前，跟他们打交道都要围绕着market yourself这个中心。
面试完了就move on。说话人的语气, body language，比字面意思还重要，求职者自己感觉不出来的话，旁人更无从下手分析。
