如果这一刻死去,我毫无遗憾

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那是一个阳关道灿烂的午后。一个朋友这样说。很多年以后,我终于体会到他那时的心情。
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我不再有期待。想要的,想得到的,不想要的,没想过的,都发生过了。我坐在沙发上看书。窗外下着小雨,很轻。房间里的灯光很温暖,我的心很安静。没有期待,没有梦想。如果这一刻就这样离世,我没有遗憾。

huidaoyuandian 发表评论于
My life is similar to yours. No husband, no children, and I am also not young anymore. But I have a good health and a self-supported living. I never wanted a life like this, and it is not acceptable by Chinese culture. But I have learned to enjoy it - a small independent life. I have a soul mate, even though it is not 100% real. I think, as a woman, as long as she is living a honest, self-reliant life, she should consider herself A LUCKY ONE. Her life should be celebrated, since she does not cause any damage to her surroundings. Cheer up! You are never alone.
白菜花 发表评论于
欣赏你的智慧和独立。当然凡事都有代价,家庭有家庭的代价,自由也有自由的代价。敢做敢当的都是好样的。
风起 发表评论于
每个人都是接受命运的安排吧,象你接受被离婚一样,很多有了孩子的女人就是选择被不离婚。生活很难一切按愿望,也许有些时候会顺风车,但是当一切想发生和不想发生的都发生了的时候,经历便称为一切的解释和理由。其实看破红尘还是难得糊涂,生活的车轮还是会继续下去,死而无憾也算是一种境界
Empty_Chair 发表评论于
保重,祝好。
倚恩 发表评论于
能够有这样的想法是好的,至少它证明你是个精神独立的人。现在太多的女人经济独立,灵魂不独立。
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