Sometimes it is hard to know which is the way which is the purpose We get a car to feel free to drive around in leisure to work or simply enjoy the ride Then we need to work for the payment which is the way to reach our goal owning the car, leasing one or renting one or not owning any car to free from any headache owning a car We fall in love, get married and raise kids each one becomes ways to next purpose the next purpose becomes ways of living or not raising kids and just enjoying the life or hell the marriage opt our or fall out of love Even just being single still could love anyone anything you could love without any attachment in any social responsible way If there is no purpose then there is no need to follow everyone else way