回复 '闲人123' 的评论 :
My point was - even if I intentionally "encourage" all boys or girls become homosexual, most of them won't, because it's not in their nature. My observation was, even though the society tried very hard to "encourage" or force homosexual people to become "straight," they might choose to behave differently or become more discreet, their nature will remain the same. Nature plays a much more important role than nurture when it comes to sexual orientation - that's my conclusion based on all the readings and my personal observation. And again, I don't see it as "right" or "wrong," it's just who we ARE as products of nature, just like it's not "right" or "wrong" or "better" or "worse" to have dark or pale skin. Speaking of 生物學觀點, I happen to have degrees in biology and would LOVE to discuss further with you.
Will you encourage all boys and girls become gay and lesbians?
希望同情少數和弱勢不要變成是非不分，甚至支持謬誤。
從生物學觀點來看, 同性戀是反人類的行為。只不過他／她們不傷害別人。So, just let them go? Who cares?
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复guaimaomimi：
Even in your class in NYC, the gay were still minority. Most students were normal.
We can understand, respect and pay deep sympathy to those people with special behavior. It's not necessary to criticize them. That's their business, not mine. However, we, I and you, for this topic, can not say the majorities are wrong. That's why I said "樓主Mychina的看法无可指摘".
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回复 '闲人123' 的评论 :
Sorry I have to type English now just because it's way faster. Just to give you a little bit of first-hand data/observation. When I was getting my last degree in NYC, there were 80 students in my class and we had all the classes together for the whole year. There were 40 male and 40 female. Among the 40 guys, at least 5 were openly gay. Only one of them "looked" gay. Two others looked just "normal" (though my best gay friend insisted that he could easily tell they were gay). And the other two looked very much like "a guys' guy." Four of them were really nice and friendly. One of them was a bit whiny. I'm telling you this just so you may understand that, to me, there is nothing abnormal about being gay.
回复 'mychina' 的评论 :
hmmm, I did say your post suggested that you were judgmental in this regard, but I didn't say you were right or wrong about anything. What you expressed and what I expressed were all personal opinions. There is really no right or wrong in this matter. I seem to be a little more open-minded than you are and that's probably the main difference.
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回复 'guaimaomimi' 的评论 : 我又没有错，为什么喜欢别人批评我呀？
况且，你有没有什么让我心服口服的地方，哈哈哈
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回复 'mychina' 的评论 :
LOL. Got it. 不喜欢被别人批判. :) VERY MAN.
回复 'guaimaomimi' 的评论 : I just can't please everyone. You have your view and I have mine. Keep your disappointing and have a great day. :-)
Also, I can not tell who is a girl or a boy until I see, right?
You take care tooooooo
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回复 'mychina' 的评论 :
It's quite disappointing that you can't try to understand another person's point of view, because I used to have high respect for you. It doesn't matter whether you believe I'm a girl or not. This is your blog after all. Take care.
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回复 '无名小绿草' 的评论 :反正什么人都有。
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回复 'guaimaomimi' 的评论 : I really don't know what are you talking about, and do not beleive that you are a girl, hahaha
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喜欢男人 does not equal to 娘的男人. And what's wrong with 留披肩长发? Everything you listed here is superficial (maybe except for the last one). And it suggests that you're judgmental, which kind of surprised me, because I've liked most of your posts and didn't ever think you were judgmental. Come on, a girl these days wouldn't be laughed at for wearing guy's clothes or having a boy-like name, why can't guys have the equal rights? It's ok that you don't like it, but please try not to call other people 变态 just because they don't meet your narrow standard. BTW, I'm a girl.
