What's something awesome you've noticed about Chinese people?
I’ll mention four things that have stood out to me the most so far:
- Always looking for things to learn and ways to improve themselves.
As with all of these, it doesn’t apply to everyone, of course; there are lazy Chinese, just like there are lazy Americans or lazy Europeans or lazy people anywhere else in the world. I’m not trying to make a comparison here or say everyone is like this. But, I would say that for a lot of Chinese I meet, they seem to have this in common. For example, if I ask someone if they like their job, after normal things like whether it’s busy or not or if the pay is any good, they usually comment on whether they are able to learn something from the people they work with or improve themselves in some way through their job. I think that’s really cool. Just look at how many Chinese use Quora because they really want a place where they can practice and improve their English. I find a lot of Chinese to be curious and lifelong learners. I think that’s awesome. - Hospitality and helpfulness.
Sure, sometimes it’s fake or just for show, but a lot of times, it’s really genuine. Making a Chinese friend can take time, and you have to learn to tell the difference between who is a real friend and who is just putting on a show for ulterior motives (Chinese learn to do this with each other, too), but when you make a real Chinese friend, they’re worth their weight in gold. And I can’t tell you how many times people have taken me out for a meal or helped me with something just to be nice. Tong Xin Catherine’s answer does a good job describing this. Generosity, helpfulness, and hospitality really are traits that all well-mannered Chinese seem to share, and it’s a cool thing. - Singing
Chinese people like to sing. Even in public. Of all the traits on here, this one may be the most universal. One of the most popular things to do with your friends in China is to go do KTV, which is the Chinese version of karaoke; while, granted, that differs from Western karaoke in that it’s just in a private room with you and your friends still, with a little coaxing (or sometimes even without), it’s not too hard to find someone in a group (or several people in a group) who are willing to sing in front of other people. Singing is usually something you do when you’re happy—and when you’re not, it’s still usually cathartic in some way—so I think this is a positive thing any way you look at it. - An indomitable spirit.
I taught for two years in a Chinese high school (高中) in the Lintong District of Xi’an. Of course, anywhere you go, in any country, there will be people who work hard and people who, well, don’t put in as much effort. But middle school in China…man, it’s rough.
Most students live at the school and spend almost the entire day in class. A typical day’s classes might start at about 8 a.m. and keep going until a lunch break for about two hours from noon to 2 p.m., but sometimes it’s not even that long, especially for 高三 students (seniors)—they might take a full half hour for lunch, but more often they bring their food back to their classroom so they can keep working. After lunch, regular classes resume until dinner, which is usually either 5:30 or 6 p.m., and again only lasts for about an hour (unless you’re a senior). After dinner, you have to go back to your classroom, where you either work on homework or sometimes have extra lessons or makeup lessons if anything happened to disrupt the normal class schedule that week. That goes at least until 9–9:30 p.m., or at least that’s usually how long the students are required to stay before they can go back to their dorms. After that, sometimes there are clubs and activities or free time, but as often as not, there’s more studying to do, because the amount of homework is usually pretty tremendous.
As for teaching styles and class discipline, it can vary a little from teacher to teacher, but I think it’s fair to say that many teachers (particularly the class teachers, who are responsible for supervising and disciplining a given group of students) can be very, very strict. Once, at my school, one of my students told me that after some boys in the class had been playing around with a basketball at the back of the classroom between classes, their class teacher made them line up outside and spent a half an hour yelling at them and smacking them across the face for goofing off, even though it was not during class time and they were in one of the highest ranked classes at the school. Another common form of punishment: taking away the chairs of students caught sleeping in class, so they have to stand the rest of the day for all of their classes. (I stopped punishing sleeping students in my class once I found out about that).
And then there’s the pressure. Pressure from parents, pressure from teachers, pressure from your peers. Competition is extremely fierce to get into good universities, and the only way to get into a better university is to get a high enough score on the dreaded 高考 (gaokao, the university entrance exam). Every single point counts, and every moment of your life is leading up to the fateful day when you take that test. Everyone tells you that the entire rest of your life hangs in the balance of your performance on this test.
So. Like I said—it’s rough.
But despite all that, I taught a lot of really incredible kids. I was amazed at how hard some of these students would work. And not only that, but how they would still keep their spirits up as much as they did. How they would still be really kind, genuine, funny, interesting people, despite being in such a tough situation with so much pressure day in and day out. It would be easy to give up, get frustrated, or be depressed—and, of course, for some that does happen. Probably many. But I was impressed by how many didn’t let it get to them—how many chose to do their best, and still keep up a good attitude and a positive, hopeful outlook. There were a lot of smart, talented, warm, and passionate students that I had the privilege to teach at that school. Maybe I was just lucky; I know different schools can have different characteristics, but I still think those qualities are something a lot of Chinese share.
In my last weeks of teaching at that school, I let my students use the entire class time to ask me any questions they wanted. I got a lot of questions about sports, or food, or my plans for the future and if I have a girlfriend or not, but there were some really interesting questions, too. One student asked me, “Are you worried about the future and what will happen?” If memory serves me, there had recently been a terrorist attack in the news, and I think that may have been what prompted the question. My answer might sound cheesy, but it was sincere. I told him that students like him and others at that school are what give me hope for the future. I genuinely think that, as depressing as problems in the world can be, people like him and his classmates are going to be the ones that make the world a better place.
The ability to do the asian squat. Five years in and I’m still in awe (and quite jealous) of the general population’s ability to go chair-less at any moment for extended periods of time. The buttocks rests upon the heels and this allows for hours of Wechat moments swiping or checking your ZhiHu queries without ever having to sit on a less than sanitary surface such as your local guangchang which has probably been the recipient of more than a few lung cough ups or less desirable actions…
It has been theorized westerners generally cannot do it correctly because of a shortened achilles tendon due to sitting in chairs regularly and wearing shoes where the heel is raised above the toe.[1] Children can generally do it because their flexibility is still intact.
Try it for more than a couple minutes, likely you’ll be uncomfortable or you won’t even be able to fall back into this position at all.
Square dancing!
No, not like that you noobs…
Like this! You gotta be outside in full view playing the music extremely loud so everyone around can enjoy it. It’s said more than 100 million people around China participate and the dancing usually occurs in the early morning or evenings if you are interested in catching it. Go see it, I promise you will be in awe.
Learn more about it here: Square dancing (China) - Wikipedia
**Update**
Took this one coming home last night. Simply awesome.
Footnotes
China plays a very importand role in our western civilization. Without it, a lot of it's inventions would've been discovered by us a lot later. China has a very big history as it's the oldest continuous civilization on earth! Enjoy :)
Thank you for this wonderful answer! Those kids were really lucky to have you as a teacher.