随想--绝境和信心。

真正的理不是冰冷的,是有生命的,如同和风徐徐吹入心。。。
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没有陷入过绝境的人很难理解那种完全丧失安全感的感觉,不能理解其中那种绝望,困惑,想挣扎出来却不得的感受。

最近我有几个朋友被发现的了癌症。虽然其他的朋友也给予很多的关怀,帮助,劝解。但是唯有得过癌症的朋友的话语最有力量。为什么?因为这里有信。

这里的网友真诚的推荐专业人士,这份真诚也是源自于信心,因为她们自己也是各种领域的专业人士。也和各种专业人士打交道,过往的经验告诉她们,专业知识,专业人士很有帮助。就算偶尔有问题,也可以继续前行。这里面靠的就是信心。

说到底,前行的是自己内在的信心,面对的困境不过时外在需要解决问题。

但是对一个没了信心的人来说,情况就完全不同了。因为没有信心就不能前行了。无论是什么样的方案都会推导出不安全结果来。所以就陷入绝境。

更糟糕的是陷入绝境的感觉不是那么容易被人理解的。一来不是每个人有过那种体验,二来,公众对绝境有个外在的标准,所以当一个的深陷自己的绝境感受,而不被外在理解时,这种绝望就又加深了几分。

但是作为生活在人群中个体,要改变他人来完全适应自己也不是不可能的,所以要学会不依靠他人的论断来决定自己。这个首要的也是建立自己的信心,直面自己,接受自己,然后在这个基础上能公平对待他人。

信心有了,就没容易陷入绝境了。

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