谦卑的美德

每每读到一些关于修养的文章,都让我想起来曾经短暂一起工作过的一位同事。

那时我刚刚开始工作没两三年年,不过一个二十七八岁的年轻女孩子。有天来了一位新的印度同事,现在想来,他大概快四十岁的样子。他来时,我已经在那个项目做了几个月,相对熟悉一些,组长就让他跟我一道做。细节已经记不清了,但让我至今仍然牢牢记得的,便是他对我的态度。按理说,他比我年长很多,完全有资格采取相应的口吻态度,至少不必把自己放在我之下。但是, 每次他跟我讲话,以及给我看他做好的东西,都是充满尊敬的态度,一丝不苟,明显让我感觉他把我摆在他‘前辈’的位置。这让我记忆深刻,并且从心底里尊敬与佩服。我们一般人,往往在工作中去尊敬比自己年长的,或者更加资格老的,觉得那是我们的本分。然而当碰到跟我们资历相等,甚或比我们浅的,ego 很多时候会把自己放在一个同等的,或是更高的心理地位上。这种心理自然会流露在自己跟对方讲话的方式与态度里。去对一个比自己年轻很多,或者资历比自己浅很多的人毕恭毕敬,是很少见到的事。因此,当真正遇到这样的人,不用很多道理,就让你学到什么是真正的谦卑。

我很感激无论走到哪里,周围都会出现这样那样的,拥有超出常人的良好品德的人,敬业,认真,谦卑,热忱。他们就这样默默地影响着自己周围的人,而自己则完全不知。

从别人文章看到这句,贴这里与你一起共勉

-- 在《理解尊重》里鲁迅说过:“我以为别人尊重我, 是因为我很优秀,后来才明白,别人尊重我,是因为别人很优秀。原来优秀的人对谁都会尊重。”--

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