The auto repair shop was already open by the time I arrived there around 8:10 am. It is an old shop owned by an honest Chinese guy Henry, 16 miles away from where I live. Except for oil change that I would do locally, I’ve come here for any other mechanical problems for my old car for the past several years. This time I need a new brake, and a due oil change.
The shop is located on a roadside right after an intersection, with a dip before a battered wrought iron gate. Inside the gate are a covered mechanical working area for about three or four cars, and a bigger uncovered open space clustered with old dusty cars, vans or SUVs that look like being there forever. Because of these stationed cars, the driveway is very narrow, only wide enough for just two cars to come in and back off. Hearing my car’s rumbling noises, Henry, a median height guy of about 60-year-old, greeted me from behind the parked cars. He helped me back off the car, squeezed it to the side, and turned off the engine. I entered a small waiting room, seated myself on one of the five chairs and started knitting.
The waiting room is connected to an office by an open wall window, where Henry or sometimes his wife received the customers with questions and payments. Ten fifteen minutes later, in came an old dark-skin Spanish looking guy and sat on the other side. He looked at the water stand by the door and asked about the coffee, and that’s how our conversations started. We talked about the shop, how he was referred here as this was his first time. We talked about our car problems, models, and the years. He told me that the car that needed to be fixed today was going to be handed down to his son, as he himself has another one, an antique 1957 Bell sth(?) that is still worth $40,000. He then took out his cell phone and showed me a picture of his house, in front of which parked his antique car, very new-looking, clean but old-fashioned. As the conversation deepened, he then talked about his youngest daughter, whose wedding was to be held at a beach resort, and that he was going to fund $30,000 for it. I told him that in our Chinese tradition, it is the bridegroom’s family who pays for the wedding. He retorted that it was OK as he only has one daughter, and he was willing to pay. “This might be the last time I pay for the wedding. I don’t think I will have the chance to live to the day when my grandsons are married,” said the happy old man.
During our conversations, more people came in, talked to Henry, dropped the keys and left. About an hour later, the guy left too as his car was ready, leaving me and another newcomer waiting in the room. Then came in a lady who looked like an old customer of the owner, talking to him gaily regarding her daughter’s attending Olympic next year in Tokyo as a softball player for the national Italian team. We chimed in, congratulating her and asking her how her daughter, an American citizen, would play for the Italian team. Then a story about her mother-in-law being an Italian immigration, and how that enabled her daughter to be dual citizens was told. She then parted heartily among our good luck wishes.
Then alone in the waiting room, I chit chatted with Henry across the window, before my car was ready around 10:20 am. A little long the wait was, I had a happy morning, meeting and talking to people that I may never have encountered, had it not been for the small room.
回复 '7grizzly' 的评论 : Haha, you don't need to feel pressured:)) Unless Tim likes it, I bet you won't have that strong incentive. When I did it, someone just laughed at me, and I eat alone:))
Unlike high blood sugar, when mostly food intake and diet control will do, high blood pressure cannot be easily tamed. Say, for instance, hiking three hours in the morning will bring my blood pressure to very normal, but it won't last long. It rises again later in the afternoon or evening:(( Hopefully in his case, it works better. Thanks again, my friend.
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回复 '暖冬cool夏' 的评论 :
Thanks for the tips. Now I _have_ to make them ;-)
> he is very stubborn not to see the doctor or take any medication.
I think he's wise. Life-style change is the right way.
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回复 'yy56' 的评论 : 谢谢闻香,有一阵不见了,问候你!
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回复 '7grizzly' 的评论 : Glad that you like dried sweet potatoes too. Some tips here: 1. Put the raw sweet potato in the sun for a few days. That will make them sweeter. 2. Cut a sweet potato in half and steam. 2. Don't steam too long, or it will be too soft. 3. Peel the skin when it is still hot, if you don't like the skin. 4. Slice them into about 2cm. Don't be too thin, so it won't be too dry and not chewy. 5. You can also bake them in an oven, if that is more convenient. I both sunned and baked. Remember not to be too dry.
I have high blood pressure, from my mom's gene, and have been on medication for years. He was found to have high blood pressure too, though he does not have that gene. What worries me is that he is very stubborn not to see the doctor or take any medication. So the only options are diet and exercise.
Thanks, my friend, for your echoing. Have a great new week!
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好温馨的小日子。喜欢!
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I love this post! So many things I can relate to.
- I will probably steam and dry some sweet potatoes myself,
- I can picture the car shop from your description, and
- The small space induced people to share, very Tao-ish.
It's good to know you guys keep up exercising.
No need to push too much but just get some sweat,
Every Single Day.