活出自我？ 独乐乐， 众乐乐？
每个人的生活都是和家人， 朋友， 熟人和周围环境相互嵌入的。关系越亲密， 相互嵌入和相互渗透的就更深更广。 我们每个人每天也都在不停地调换角色： 妈妈， 妻子， 同事， 大厨， 清洁工， 。。。， 每人都是多元体。
活得精彩， 做好每个角色， 和身边人互动自如流畅愉快， 自己和外在的大环境和谐， 身心健康 愉快便是美好人生 。
早上听到一首歌， 很应景； THOSE WERE THE DAYS
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3KEhWTnWvE
歌词如下：
Once upon a time there was a tavern
Where we used to raise a glass or two
Remember how we laughed away the hours
And dreamed of all the great things we would do
Those were the days my friend
We thought they'd never end
We'd sing and dance forever and a day
We'd live the life we choose
We'd fight and never lose
For we were young and sure to have our way.
La la la la...
Then the busy years went rushing by us
We lost our starry notions on the way
If by chance I'd see you in the tavern
We'd smile at one another and we'd say
Those were the days my friend
We thought they'd never end
We'd sing and dance forever and a day
We'd live the life we choose
We'd fight and never lose
Those were the days, oh yes those were the days
La la la la...
Just tonight I stood before the tavern
Nothing seemed the way it used to be
In the glass I saw a strange reflection
Was that lonely woman really me
Those were the days my friend
We thought they'd never end
We'd sing and dance forever and a day
We'd live the life we choose
We'd fight and never lose
Those were the days, oh yes those were the days
La la la la...
Through the door there came familiar laughter
I saw your face and heard you call my name
Oh my friend we're older but no wiser
For in our hearts the dreams are still the same
Those were the days my friend
We thought they'd never end
We'd sing and dance forever and a day
We'd live the life we choose
We'd fight and never lose
Those were the days, oh yes those were the days
La la la la...
