Do You ever regret anything you say? or just like, I put it out there, it's out there, there's no point in regretting it.
Kanye:
I think people focus too much on the past and focus too much on regret. even like when you deal with school, like you take like the slave idea. my point is, I've heard of history class, I've never heard of a class that breaks down how you balance a checkbook or how you control your finances, which my father never taught me that. and I've never heard of a future class. So they keep us so focused on the history, that we start to believe that it actually repeats itself. and we become overly traditional, and we can't advance as a race of beings. we get too much caught up in the past and what everyone's saying and what everyone's tweeting. and sometimes you just have to be fearless enough to break the f**k simulation.
Elon Musk:
In terms of motivation, there needs to be things to get up in the morning.
life can't just be about solving problems, otherwise, what's the point?
there's got to be things that people find inspiring, things that make life worth living.
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回复 'freemanli01' 的评论 : 经提醒又仔细想了想关于“根”,好像也没有太清晰的答案。我前面问的“根”当时想到的更多是人性格方面那些很难做本质性改变的部分。真诚感谢你回复我这么多!
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感谢笑溪鼓励。这个问题也确实是我这些年慢慢意识到的问题,多年前我有个师兄对此说的话一直对我有的深得印象,就是,个性类似佛教说的7识,基本上很少有人能改的(虽然不是不能改,但是需要机缘和决定。修道到了一定程度的人肯定能改。)。
人不改,是因为认定“那就是我,我就是这样,我有什么要改的”(这其实就是佛教里的我执,是一种迷惑)。所谓江山易改秉性难移,难就难在那个自我认知的迷惑上。
要突破这种迷惑,进而改掉“假我”的弱点,是需要有人指导,并且自己修行的。
用电脑的说法,we don't have a soul, we are souls, who have a body (and have a mind, an emotion system, etc)
我们所有的这些个东西(身体、思想、情绪模式等等),其实都类似于一个高级电脑。能不能改,原则上是能改的,就是给这个电脑从新编程。这就换了一个人。人这个电脑是最高级的造化,它的可塑性,可编程性,是很高级的,是可以编程改变的。
但是难点就在大部分人无法把旧程序-习惯-抹掉。就变成了不能改。原因就因为佛教说的“痴”(贪嗔痴的痴),因为人们已经痴迷地认定了那个“旧程序所反映的习惯就是我”。
如果不能破除这个identification, 基本上就不会改了。
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这也是我的功课。谢谢。
哇,wuliwa来了。
你说的落地生根,是指到一个地方就生根?我也佩服,这个感觉第一次是介乎这里的网友林贝卡,我佩服她很平静的就生了根了,就像漫野地里的花,到了北美,就高高兴兴地开了花,开始生活、晒太阳了。或者类似原来黑人所谓的寻根,中国的落叶归根等等。
你说的无限,可能就是我说的无根。类似禅宗里的无依无靠的,I am nothing, and I am everything.
实际上人害怕无限,正是轮回的原因。所谓有限,就是把自己本来无限的本质,投射(Identify)到某个具体的形象上。无限就是停止这种投射。不投射,我觉得就是解脱,但是这投射的惯性极端强大而隐蔽,如影随形,24小时不停。这个投射机制是什么,过程?恐惧本身,就是幻觉惯性对人的束缚。三界限制,层层叠叠,正是只有解脱者(在世佛、明师)才能教的。
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禅宗说的无依道人,我想就是无限的生活了。