回复 'elfie' 的评论 : You make a very interesting point. Appreciate your theory of love. Totally understand what you said. In our society, we have seen a lot of people living/cohabiting together happily and peacefully as you described in your comment. Yes, it it possible that the more you invest/put in, the more you may be hurt. In this world, it is quite hard and very difficult to find true and everlasting love.
Thank you so much for your interesting comments!
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回复 'BeijingGirl1' 的评论 : 你说的是。谢谢你的好评。问候京妞！
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We could always fall in love with someone but be fully aware it's not wise to put it into action because you could soon fall out of love too.
Loving another person and feeling crazy about it is just an illusion.
Nobody is worthy of that kind of frenzy because it is just reflections of your own wishes and dreams, not really the person who you think you're in love with.
Their thoughts and feelings are hidden from you, and their temperament also.
To really know someone, you must not be in love with him or her, in order to have a fair judgement. Love is blindsided and usually foolish.
So avoid it as much as you can.
That being said, you can have a long term relationship with someone without being in love. You can continue to live with this person peacefully as partners without having any passion. This kind of mutual life lasts while a frenzy of love dies.
