深夜放歌一首:《结果》

话太多,情太满,汇成句句诗与歌
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这周挺忙的。没怎么发歌,睡前放送一首伤心情歌当催眠曲~

这首歌讲述的是“致命吸引力”——焦虑和回避型依恋伴侣的故事。《结果》其实和《两条直线》是一个系列的,一共四首歌。《结果》是第二首。当亲密关系更进一步,回避表现得无所适从,面对矛盾,更多的是敷衍、逃避。这也激发了焦虑的不安全感。而焦虑的咄咄逼人也很大程度上刺激回避逃离矛盾和冲突……很显然,两人都还爱着对方,可是却找不到一个和谐的相处方式。两人就在这种你追我逃的拉锯中痛苦又困惑着。他们该何去何从,什么时候才能有个结果?

其实不仅“焦虑”和“回避”会面临这样的棘手的难题,许多伴侣也曾在某些时刻也会遇到类似的挑战。你在歌里有听到自己熟悉的故事吗?

《结果》

词:暮子默 曲唱:Suno

我知道很多事你不想做
你只是为了迁就我
我知道很多话你没有说
你只是不想伤害我

我的焦虑
你的回避
我的愤怒
你的沉默
哦~什么时候会有结果?

关于你和我
我有太多困惑
并不是故意
总是追问为什么
我不明白
怎么变成这样了

我的焦虑
你的回避
我的愤怒
你的沉默
我们之间,何时会有结果

感谢你付出的所有努力
可是我们都已用尽了力气
现在似乎不得不去放弃
你我是否还有再试一次的勇气?

我的焦虑
你的回避
我的愤怒
你的沉默
哦~什么时候会有结果?
我们之间,何时会有结果?

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晚安啦,各位可爱的小伙伴!

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