Chinese teachers want to control all Chinese kids' life, Chinese parents want to control their kid's life, Chinese government wants to control all Chinese people's life and CCP hopes to control people in the whole world!
People are not all the same just because they share the same ethnicity/cultural origin. It's like the Nazis labeled Jews as despicable subhumans. Are all the Jews the same, are all the Jewish women whores and Jewish men swine? No!
It's too big an umbrella to put everyone in. You won't believe all Chinese women are control freaks, will you? It's just ridiculous.
夫妻两个人中总需要有一个对家庭负责任，有能够长期规划未来的能力，这是西方人从文化上就不擅长的。当人家能看出三歩以外的棋局，你连第一步如何下子都没有想法，还觉得自己很棒，谁是自恋？
早说过，中国人善于计划，尤其是长期计划。