不管是贫穷还是福有,健康还是体弱,人都免不了一死。到那时,有些人被死亡吞噬,有些人战胜死亡。我亲眼见过,面对死亡时,靠自己是装不出平安。但他们却是嘴角带笑的离开人世。我认识一对老夫妇,刚来美国探亲时参加朋友的追思会,看到人们讲离世的人的生平逸事时,大家会笑出声,仔细追问才知道,人生归宿不是死亡,老人的人生开始转变。
Hope you can find way to conquer the death.
nightly 发表评论于 2014-03-25 22:31:55
the correct response to this tragedy is compassion not religious nonsense. enough already
john777 发表评论于 2014-03-25 20:25:43
家人的痛苦来自於对死亡的恐惧,完全理解并同情。 白人同事的孩子早产妖折後说,孩子在天堂安息,有一天会相见。她们认为∶人在地上好比是蚕甬,会有困难,但去天堂,则好像变成蝴蝶,所以他们会说∶。。息了地上的劳苦,上了天家(Rest in peace)。通常人过世时候,灵魂升天,迎接他们的是自己的亲人。西方人对於死亡的解释完全不同於东方,西方人相对平静。
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soire 发表评论于 2014-03-25 18:07:04
如果是俄罗斯老毛子的飞机,看普京怎么治马来猴子.
john777 发表评论于 2014-03-25 11:52:40
I love all my fellow Chinese and wish them the best. Pls delete the curse, angry,fear,judgement,condemnation..in the dictionary of our life. And input: courageous,love,forgiveness,strength,fearless,peace,kindness,goodness,blessing...grace in our life.
Love you and bless you.
Peace to you.
Blank 发表评论于 2014-03-25 10:33:23
Extremely sad, painful. Yes. But it has been more than two weeks. Time should have prepared them for the worst. Lost in emotion in the first few days is completely understandable. But lost still so many days later is a little bit immature. Your loved ones would like you to live on, with dignity. They may feel embarrassed when looking down from heaven.
Life happens, with completely randomness and inexplicability and bad luck. The Malaysian government, or any government, cannot control the action of every individual of its citizen, nor every event in life. What could it do when someone did something unspeakable at a spur of moment?
I will 昏厥 by reading more of this type of non-news.
Different people have different way of thinking. Please just bless other and do not curse.
相信马国会尽力陪偿。失去亲人就是撕裂,當天災人禍來臨,思想人生归宿.
HE is the only ONE who have the power of restore and resurrection.
Out of ashes, we can rise!!
中国人的主要幸福来源主要靠家人,父母,子女。政府靠的上么?心理上,福利上,人们早就把家人当成最可靠的资源和依靠。失去最能依靠的人,就等于失去一切。那种绝望和无助感更重于其他国家的家属。再加上,中国执政以来以权之人,压制能力无处可见,人性化心理抚慰在社会教育上不是主要内容,在灾难面前没有榜样可效仿,接受和面对现实,将生活继续下去这些大道理在这种时候just doesn't work for these who lost loved ones。加之很多家庭原本从经济,事业令人羡慕,到家破人亡这种巨大落差,将来,希望,根本就不存在了。明知哭闹改变不了一切,但是what do you expect? 只是希望他们知道还有很多很多海内外的中国同胞都和他们一样心痛。希望这种痛不要太长。
Bingoo 发表评论于 2014-03-25 03:29:39
可以悲痛、流泪、祈祷也可以法院起诉,但不能打、砸、满地撒泼、打滚、一裤子屎尿