@康赛欧 做好自己和做个人上人之间有什么关系呢?什么叫人上人? 在美国有需要做人上人吗?有“贫贱夫妻百事哀”在美国吗?是一种怎样情形呢? 美国社会像橄榄球,中间大,绝大部分是中产阶级。 底层有政府的免费housing,吃也不同愁和什么SSI, 真没见他们为明天忧愁什么。As long as you make a decent and honest living, you could have a comfortable lifestyle that you like, really not a big deal!
You don't need to be rich to live as a person with dignity.
It's so different here than in China. Most people in the U.S wouldn't be able to strike rich but live comfortably. There's a solid middle class like us. We'd never become rich or super rich. It's not realistic. In China you might all of a sudden turn rich, then lose everything. So there was a craze about getting richer, becoming a billionaire and so on. But it's no longer working like that over there either.
@康赛欧 做好自己和做个人上人之间有什么关系呢?什么叫人上人? 在美国有需要做人上人吗?有“贫贱夫妻百事哀”在美国吗?是一种怎样情形呢? 美国社会像橄榄球,中间大,绝大部分是中产阶级。 底层有政府的免费housing,吃也不同愁和什么SSI, 真没见他们为明天忧愁什么。As long as you make a decent and honest living, you could have a comfortable lifestyle that you like, really not a big deal!
其实钱追求钱这一点上,美国和中国并没有区别。只不过很多华裔,很社会接触不多而已。至于什么是 RICH, 标准也不一样。
Hi elfie, well said, I agree with some of your points.
You don't need to be rich to live as a person with dignity. It's so different here than in China. Most people in the U.S wouldn't be able to strike rich but live comfortably. There's a solid middle class like us. We'd never become rich or super rich. It's not realistic. In China you might all of a sudden turn rich, then lose everything. So there was a craze about getting richer, becoming a billionaire and so on. But it's no longer working like that over there either.
不做好自己,怎么成为人上人呢 @天上星星
问好! 说的不错,活在当下。有句老话是这么说的,贫贱夫妻百事哀。。。@天上星星
国情不一样。在厉害国,需要有一副人上人的样子。在美国,我们只需有一份稳定工作,做好自己就行。 经上记着说:“然而我告诉你们,就是所罗门极荣华的时候,他所穿戴的,还不如这花一朵呢!”
华人无论在哪里,都很有忧患意识, 钱永远攒不够,房子不够多。见过很多外族人没有钱,又有小孩要抚养,日子居然过得很开心,很有底气,活在当下不想明天。好友先生10几年前读博士,同院有读PHD,医科的外族人士,没钱,孩子4-5个, 日子过得无忧无虑,笑口常开。好友却天天忧愁明天的日子。她也佩服周围邻居生活负担比她多几倍,却能活在当下,每天开心。
是啊,女人还得经济独立 @京妞
说的没错 @京妞
靠男人吃饭的女人, 那怕有钱,也比较悲催。
没房子的女人, 当然是没钱的女人咯。
谢谢采心!
的确,钱在危机来临时,能给女人缓冲。好主题,赞一个:)
谢谢梅华!
真棒哦,好喜欢!!