你们愿意自己的小孩象她一样吗，这件事反应了什么？

牛人啊！看看牛津妹妹21岁生日party邀请信是怎么写的 (ZT)
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Dear Friends,

Thank you for all your replies and I am glad all of you can come this Friday to celebrate my 21st with me.
Please read ALL the following to ensure your entry into the Ritz.

Lucy's 21st Birthday Party at The Ritz Hotel London

Friday, 18th of August
9pm Champagne Reception
10pm Photo Shoots
10:30pm Blowing Candles

Mid-night Pangaea, Mayfair

I have arranged the Ritz to host a Champagne Reception with a selection of Ritz Champagne for all my guests, this will be on me so please come and indulge.

A specially made birthday cake has also been ordered and the Ritz waiters will kindly serve you each a generous slice with Ritz cutleries, etc...also on me.

INSTRUCTIONS FOR ENTRY:
* When you arrive, take the Hotel entry on the opposite side of the Green Park tube station [Please refer to your arrival time at the end of this email]
* When asked "how can I help you Sir/Madame?", you reply "I am here for Lucy's Birthday Party at the Rivoli Bar"
* You will be escorted to the lounge area next to the Rivoli bar, where you will hopefully see a gorgeous group of ladies.

If you experience any issues getting in or getting to the Ritz, please call my mobile on ????? ??? ??? and my PA Ms G??? will kindly deal with your queries between 8:30pm to 10pm.

STRICT DRESS CODE:
Gentlemen: Jacket, shirt, and please also bring a tie (no jeans, trainers, flip-flops, polo-shirts)
Ladies: skirt/top, cocktail dress (no denim, min-skirts, flip-flips, bad tastes)
Advice 1: It goes without saying that the more upper-class you dress, the less likely you shall be denied entry.
Advice 2: Photos will be taken between 10pm to 10:30pm, and these will be distributed once processed, therefore you may want to be well-groomed!

Finally...
I will be accepting cards and small gifts between 9pm to 11pm... hehehe

I very much look forward to seeing you all at the Ritz this Friday.

Lucy

ARRIVAL TIMES: [Please stick to these as best as you can, thank you]
9:00pm: Lucy, Sophie S., Kajai, Mandeep, Preet, Sanami, Su, Lisa, Kate.
9:15pm: Phoebe, Sophie Se., Theo, Dmitry, Ed, Nikolay, Paul, Nick, Harry.
9:30pm: Marco, Andrea, Jess, Ovi, Yuki, Olga, Kim, Marcelo, Ulyana, Krystal, Dan.
9:45pm: Sunita, Alan, JingJing, Emma.
10:00pm: Anthony, Rachel, Roger, Uli, Yogi, Gharzi

Lucy Gao
Citigroup | Real Estate Equity Research
Xth Floor, Citigroup Centre (CGC1)
25 Canada Square, London E14 5LB
Direct Line: [phone] XXXX
Fax: [phone] XXXX
Mobile: [phone] XXXX
Email: [e-mail] mailto:[e-mail]


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在花旗银行集团驻伦敦分行实习的一名牛津大学华裔女生近日向39名好友广发电子邮件，邀请他们到一家豪华酒店参加她的21岁生日晚会。但这封电邮定下诸多古怪规矩，严格要求客人应穿什么服饰、言谈举止要怎么样，如何送礼等，把自己当作天后一样。有人把这封电邮转寄出去
这场闹剧的女主角Lucy Gao是牛津大学贝理奥学院的学生，今年暑假到花旗银行实习，在伦敦著名的金丝雀码头（伦敦金融区）上班。不久前，高鲁思在公司上班的时候发出电子邮件，邀请39名好友到伦敦瑞兹酒店参加她的21岁生日晚会，只是电子邮件的内容十分古怪。
邮件中，她详细列出整场晚会各个环节的时间表：酒店会于21时为宾客奉上香槟，但根据她的安排，这个时候只会有9名客人到场。其余客人要按照她编定的时间入场，每人只有15分钟，迟过15分钟便会被拒之门外；22时，主人家与客人拍照留念；22时30分，寿星女吹熄生日蛋糕上的蜡烛。来宾要注意，他们要按照事先指定的入口进入会场，要按照规定对接待他们的工作人员说些什么。服饰也要严格遵守。她写道：“你们穿得越高级，被拒之门外的机会便越低。”她还告诉来宾：“我会在21时至23时之间，接受你们送来的贺卡和小礼品。”

这个大日子过了一周后，这名女实习生仍然成为各方谈论的焦点。原来，她最初发出的电邮，不知何故一传十、十传百，发到全世界，连花旗银行的高层和其他国际金融机构的管理层也收到这封邮件。

高鲁思目前已经躲起来拒绝见人，而她的手机留言信箱已经爆满。8月24日，有人在网上留言版上看到一则留言，似乎是高鲁思写的。她对银行内的同事说：“那封电邮的内容有任何冒犯之处，我感到抱歉，我是乐于招待你们的。请你们停止转发电子邮件。”