妈妈们，请不要在使用Time Out的方法

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妈妈们，请不要在使用Time Out的方法。Time Out是北美比较流行的方法之一。但是现在已经开始全面否定。原因是因为没有没有作用。6岁一下的小孩因为其心理发展的制约，非常的自我中心（Egocentry）,他们还不能很好的从别人的角度考虑问题。所以Time Out的时候小孩子没有能力反省自己的问题的，他们能想到的是：“妈妈不爱我了。妈妈伤害我了。”有些胆小的孩子还会非常恐惧。这种方法并没有教给小孩正确的行为。呵呵，别指望小孩自己Figure out。所以请不要再使用TimeOut这种只有伤害而没有正面作用的方法。推荐3本书，里面介绍了一些正确的做法。


-"Siblings Without Rivalry" by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish

-"How To Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk" by

-“Guidance of Young Children” By Marian C. Marion 


 

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