人不能为别人而活，
世界就像个大Mall，走进去不是为了买别人喜欢的东西，而是为了买自己喜欢的东西。
不是别人说你应该喜欢吃什么，我就买什么吃。为什么呀。。
这事儿如果仔细说，就产生了一大堆问题。你有没有责任跟别人建议，吃什么健康，什么不健康。自己吃东西，产生的咖喱油盐酱醋的味道，会不会熏到别人。熏到别人了，你是强压、否认自己的喜好，还是应该自己躲起来吃？有些河豚，你想吃，是否就一定要别人吃？别人吃了火锅、麻辣烫哇哇叫，就一定表示他/她不想吃火锅了吗？
不过无论如何，还是自己想要什么为第一要务吧。。。否则自己没事做，心里空虚，就开始管别人的事了。
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这歌还是以前在国内听的，当时在深圳买了个Bedtime story CD. 天天在公司宿舍放。
英语听懂很少，就是喜欢那个开放、放得开，震了惊了，像个解放者。
最近想找回来听，发现视频更好看，她的肢体语言真的精准，富于表达力，欣赏，佩服，赞叹。
Papa I know you're going to be upset
...
Dad please be strong.
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Papa I know you're going to be upset
'Cause I was always your little girl
But you should know by now
I'm not a baby
You always taught me right from wrong
I need your help, daddy please be strong
I may be young at heart
But I know what I'm saying
The one you warned me all about
The one you said I could do without
We're in an awful mess
And I don't mean maybe, please
Papa don't preach I'm in trouble deep
Papa don't preach, I've been losing sleep
But I made up my mind, I'm keeping my baby, hm
I'm gonna keep my baby, hm
He says that he's going to marry me
We can raise a little family
Maybe we'll be all right
It's a sacrifice
But my friends keep telling me to give it up
Saying I'm too young, I ought to live it up
What I need right now is some good advice, please
Papa don't preach, I'm in trouble deep
Papa don't preach, I've been losing sleep
But I made up my mind, I'm keeping my baby, hm
I'm gonna keep my baby, ooh ooh
Daddy, daddy if you could only see
Just how good he's been treating me
You'd give it some blessing right now
'Cause we are in love
We are in love (in love), so please (so)
Papa don't preach, I'm in trouble deep
Papa don't preach, I've been losing sleep
But I made up my mind, I'm keeping my baby, hm
I'm gonna keep my baby, ooh ooh
Papa don't preach, I'm in trouble deep
Papa don't preach, I've been losing sleep
Papa don't preach, I'm in trouble deep
Papa don't preach, I've been losing sleep
Papa don't preach (Oh, I'm gonna keep my baby)
Papa don't preach (Ooh)
Papa don't preach (Don't you stop loving me, daddy)
Papa don't preach (I know I'm keeping my baby)
