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所有的付出,都或多或少的有一些回报,比如我们付出了时间、付出了精力,付出了体力,换来了工资,换来了股票,换来了地位,换来了职位,不管付出和回报是不是成正比,很多时候,这样的付出,是有回报的。
![求生的奇蹟」耐力號沉船在南極海域被發現- 國際- 中時新聞網](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQ5ooktVmUn-vodoyJbwTa5KlWirrojzDIxqQ&usqp=CAU)
当然,也有的时候,自己的付出和自己的回报不成正比,付出和回报不匹配,这些都是正常的。我就经历过这样的付出和回报不匹配的经历:小的时候参加羽毛球比赛,冬训了小半年,每天都累的像一条阿拉斯加雪橇狗,就指望着开春之后参加比赛,拿个冠军,捧个奖杯再拿点儿小奖金什么的。但是,事与愿违,比赛的时候全军覆没,每个人都是惨败。几个月的辛苦训练努力付出没有结果。后来才知道,人家对手每天也是同样辛苦的训练,每天累的像阿拉斯加雪橇死狗,人家比我们付出的多,所以,收获就和付出成正比。
体育比赛就是这么残酷,要么就是冠军,要么是很么都不是。所以,该付出的时候,就要全力付出,不能有点滴的保留,否则,付出了也是白付出!
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当然,在生命中,有一些事情是不能求回报的,比如,你想要繁衍,想要下一代,那你就会有很多很多的付出,时间精力体力金钱所有所有,但是,你不能找孩子们要回报。人家孩子也没有要求你生他们呀?你兴奋了,你爽歪了,你高潮了,你生了孩子,还要找人家要回报,这个也太过了吧。你自己愿意生,你就要必须养,你就要担起来这个责任。今后孩子对你有回报,那是你的福分,如果孩子没有能给你回报,那你也要接受现实。
![愛是不求回報,但只有相愛才能譜出戀情– 布雷克人生](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcS-TH9O2fkTvM27LLTA2R8i_FHQfZnyW-6gVg&usqp=CAU)
我觉得,感情的事情也是不能要求回报的。你爱一个人,和人家没有什么关系呀?是你自己要爱人家的。你爱了,你爽了,你舒服了,你巴适了,你安逸了,你还要回报,这个也有点太自私了吧?
![現代心理學家看愛情:挽救婚姻最後的絕招—愛自己|親子天下](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRQI7irB-hrPUXjA6Mo_j7fRPOIhZffdTkvVg&usqp=CAU)
我觉得,婚姻家庭也是没有办法要求回报的。每个人都是自愿组成家庭的。我们人类基本上都是因为爱才组成家庭的。在一个家庭里,每个人都有自己的定位,都有自己的贡献,都有自己的付出,当然,也有自己的回报。如果婚姻中的每个人都计较自己洗了几次碗,擦了几次车,拖了几次地,扫了几次后院子,或者挣过多少钱,做过几天饭,那就比较无聊了。因为,基本上所有的人结婚,都是奔着幸福去的。在奔向幸福的路上,自己尽可能的付出,如果有回报,那是你的福分,如果没有回报,那也是你自己愿意走过这段婚姻过程的。在婚姻中要求回报,最终结果就是失去婚姻的一切。
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还有就是当老师教书育人,当教练培养孩子等等职业和工作,也是不要要求回报的。你当老师,已经有了一份薪水,你当教练,人家付给你工资了。如果还想要从学生和孩子身上拿到什么回报,那就是要的有点太多了。虽然说师恩难忘,但是,那是孩子们和学生们的事情,当老师和当教练的,倾心的教书育人就行了,任何多一点的要求,都是一种贪心。
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交朋友也是,遇到缘分,交心交人,不图回报,这样的情谊才能长久。
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爱,更是了。爱的本质是付出,是给予,而不是图回报。古往今来伟大的爱,没有一个是图回报的。只有真心付出,不图回报,最后得到的才是满满的爱!
我现在做事交友,就是一心付出,不图回报!
《版权付出所有,翻印回报不究》
有话直说818 发表评论于
不求回报的付出终将会得到回报的。
尤其开心USA 发表评论于
从容,Hi~5!幸福就是介样的
梦中的海湾 发表评论于
回复 'mychina' 的评论 : 没说真心话,你能把过去的事情都忘掉就说明你没有真正爱过。我喜欢过的从来没有忘记过。
Armweak 发表评论于
在这一点上,俺倒是不同。谁爱过俺,俺爱过谁,俺全记得。:)
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mychina 发表评论于 2023-03-22 14:58:35
回复 'Armweak' 的评论 : 过去的事情全记不得了。
flyingdust11 发表评论于
Mutual love最好,不是回报,是平等的互相付出。当然孩子除外,因为当父母的一般都是无怨无悔地付出,自己乐意就好,谈回报实在太无聊。配偶有点不一样,双方都需要一颗感恩的心。当然,男人多爱女人一些刚刚好,哈哈哈!
mychina 发表评论于
回复 'Armweak' 的评论 : 过去的事情全记不得了。
mychina 发表评论于
回复 '淡淡的日子' 的评论 : 你的理论太复杂。
Armweak 发表评论于
很少看见牛哥谈自己的情感,想不到,牛哥对感情这种东西还有如此超凡脱俗的理解。牛哥背后的情感世界,一片雾朦胧鸟朦胧,好象那一座smoky mountains,说不定罩着很多人间仙女呢。盼望什么时候,牛哥也爆一爆料,抖出一些年轻时候瓜田李下的故事,让俺们吃瓜群众一饱口福,如果能弄一两出纳履整冠的故事,则更精彩。:)
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“我觉得,感情的事情也是不能要求回报的。你爱一个人,和人家没有什么关系呀?是你自己要爱人家的。你爱了,你爽了,你舒服了,你巴适了,你安逸了,你还要回报,这个也有点太自私了吧?”
淡淡的日子 发表评论于
牛哥,生命中一切事物都需要回报才符合能量守恒定律。您说的这个道理是付出的人本身是否要求回报还是不要求,我们可以要求,也可以不要求。就拿爱来说,付出爱的人在付出的时候可以不要求回报,但收到爱的人如果长期心安理得不予以回报,那爱的能量一定会失衡。不平衡的事情难以为继,因为只支出不回收,久而久之能量也就枯竭了。所以讲道理要全面的讲,不能只讲一半儿呀,哈哈哈!
mychina 发表评论于
回复 '魅力野花' 的评论 : 哲学家说的很对!
魅力野花 发表评论于
如果人生中的多数事情都需要回报的话,那么我们每个人的一生就是每天去回报别人,没有止境。。。
然后,就是一事无成。。。
最可能的结局是,我们只能有选择地回报一些。
或者,干脆少欠别人的。
mychina 发表评论于
回复 '依稀可见的梦' 的评论 : 学习使人进步!
mychina 发表评论于
回复 '四川猿人' 的评论 : 你这是明目张胆的骂我,哈哈哈
mychina 发表评论于
回复 '多伦多橄榄树' 的评论 : 哈哈哈,是的是的
mychina 发表评论于
回复 'bbbbtttt' 的评论 : 是的,死狗的结果最好!
mychina 发表评论于
回复 '梦中的海湾' 的评论 : 有些事情你不懂,你就永远都不会懂。
依稀可见的梦 发表评论于
哇哦,境界升华了
四川猿人 发表评论于
牛大哥越来越哲学了。
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多伦多橄榄树 发表评论于
一切随风而来随风而去,反正,对朋友好点儿,其他的都别多想了
bbbbtttt 发表评论于
累的像阿拉斯加雪橇狗
vs
累的像阿拉斯加雪橇死狗
一字只差,结果不同呀
梦中的海湾 发表评论于
不信!你对感情不图回报的话干嘛还经常感叹回报不回报的?