Done my tasks, taking a break, coffee hot, Scrolling down, surfing around, I got hit by the following:
• 英文工作，中文娛樂？纠结吗？把纠结的人都请到美坛来！用英文娱乐呗。ZT 妖妖： 一起玩，一起学。不用再纠结！：）） -盈盈一笑间- ♀ 
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• Sharp! You got my point: When in Rome, Do as the Romans Do -TJKCB- ♀ (67 bytes) (3 reads) 09/20/2023 postreply 12:43:45
• When in Rome, Do as the Romans Do！ -盈盈一笑间- ♀ (0 bytes) (1 reads) 09/20/2023 postreply 18:28:43
• The issue is I don’t know what Romans do. -方外居士- ♂ (0 bytes) (4 reads) 09/20/2023 postreply 20:10:26
• act like Roman, eat like Roman, dress like Roman How? -TJKCB- ♀ (6061 bytes) (0 reads) 09/21/2023 postreply 09:58:33
• Feeling like you've lost your spark?Well, you are not alone. -renqiulan- ♂ (0 bytes) (2 reads) 09/20/2023 postreply 20:34:14
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act like Roman, eat like Roman, dress like Roman How?
Here are some rules and tips for effectively mingling and integrating into a foreign culture:
Be Open-Minded: Approach the new culture with an open mind and a willingness to learn. Avoid making quick judgments or stereotypes about the people and their customs.
Learn the Language: Even if you can't become fluent, making an effort to learn the local language can go a long way in building connections and understanding the culture better. Locals often appreciate it when you try to speak their language.
Respect Local Etiquette: Study and understand the etiquette and social norms of the culture. This includes rules for greetings, dining, gift-giving, and personal space. Be especially mindful of gestures and behaviors that may be considered rude or offensive.
Listen and Observe: Actively listen to what locals say, and observe how they interact with each other. This can provide valuable insights into their values, priorities, and social dynamics.
Engage in Cultural Activities: Participate in local cultural events, festivals, and activities. This can be an excellent way to meet people, learn about traditions, and immerse yourself in the culture.
Make Local Friends: Seek opportunities to make friends with locals. Join clubs, classes, or community groups to connect with people who share your interests. Building personal relationships can deepen your understanding of the culture.
Ask Questions: Don't hesitate to ask questions about the culture, history, and customs. Most people are happy to share their knowledge and help you understand their way of life.
Adapt to Local Food: Be open to trying local cuisine, even if it's different from what you're used to. Food is a significant part of any culture, and sharing meals with locals can be a bonding experience.
Respect Local Beliefs: Be respectful of local religious beliefs and practices, even if they differ from your own. Attend religious ceremonies or events if you're invited and follow any dress codes or customs associated with them.
Stay Informed: Stay informed about current events and issues in the country. Being aware of local news and politics can help you engage in meaningful conversations with locals.
Travel Slowly: If possible, spend extended periods in the foreign culture rather than rushing through tourist destinations. This allows for a deeper and more meaningful experience.
Accept Cultural Differences: Understand that not everything will be the same as in your home country, and that's okay. Embrace the differences, as they are what make each culture unique.
Be Patient: Integration takes time, and there will likely be moments of frustration or discomfort. Be patient with yourself and with the process of adjusting to a new culture.
Remember that cultural integration is a gradual process, and it's okay to make mistakes along the way. What's important is your genuine effort to respect and adapt to the local culture while sharing your own perspective and experiences as well. This mutual exchange can lead to meaningful connections and a deeper appreciation of the world's diversity.
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The expression "When in Rome, do as the Romans do" means that when you are in a foreign place or culture, you should adapt to the customs, traditions, and behaviors of the local people. It's a way of saying that you should respect and follow the local norms rather than imposing your own customs or habits.
To give you a better idea of what Romans typically do or what this phrase implies, here are some general guidelines:
Dress Code: Dress modestly and appropriately according to the local fashion and customs. In Rome, people often dress stylishly but conservatively.
Greeting: Italians, including Romans, often greet with a kiss on both cheeks among friends and acquaintances. A handshake is also common in formal situations.
Mealtime: Italians take their meals seriously. Lunch is usually the main meal of the day, and dinner is eaten later in the evening. It's customary to enjoy long, leisurely meals with family and friends.
Punctuality: Italians can be somewhat flexible when it comes to punctuality, but it's generally a good idea to be on time for appointments and meetings.
Language: While many Romans and Italians speak English, it's appreciated if you make an effort to learn a few basic Italian phrases. It shows respect for the local culture.
Tipping: Tipping is common in restaurants and cafes, but it's not as generous as in some other countries. Usually, rounding up the bill or leaving a small tip is sufficient.
Respect for Historic Sites: When visiting historic sites and churches, dress modestly and follow any specific rules or guidelines posted at the location. Silence is often expected in churches.
Cultural Awareness: Be aware of local customs, holidays, and traditions. Italians have a rich cultural heritage, and participating or showing an interest in local events can be appreciated.
Driving and Traffic: Rome is known for its chaotic traffic. If you're driving, be prepared for aggressive driving styles and pay attention to traffic rules.
Manners: Politeness and good manners are highly valued in Italian culture. Saying "please" (per favore) and "thank you" (grazie) goes a long way.
Remember that while these are general guidelines for adapting to Roman culture, there can be variations within the city and among individuals. It's always a good idea to observe the behavior of locals and ask for guidance if you're unsure about what's appropriate in a specific situation. Showing respect and an interest in the local way of life is usually well-received in any foreign culture.
