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【RAISING BOYS FIT TO CHANGE THE WORLD】
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小睿从小就喜欢小虫子。记得他几个月大的时候,我抱他到后院看蚂蚁,他能盯这些小东西看几十分钟。再大一些,如果有人踩死了他正在观察的蜘蛛,蚂蚁或者不知名的毛毛虫,他会为这些微不足道小生物而哭闹。出去玩,他经常忽略身边的宏伟建筑名胜古迹,而为地上的一条蚯蚓而欢呼,搞得我甚至后悔是不是该带他出来。


(妈妈,快来,这有一只蚂蚁!)

前不久一家去Bear Mountain玩。小睿在山顶抓了一只蚂蚱,他小心地把它放在一个纸盒里然后装在袖子上的一个口袋里,说是要带回家。爬了很长时间山,孩子上车就睡着了。到家的时候天已经黑了,原以为他早已经把那只蚂蚱忘到九霄云外去了。谁知道他一醒来就打开那个盒子去看他心爱的虫子。你还别说,这蚂蚱的生命力还真强,在盒子里捂了这么久又“跑”了这么长的路,居然还活蹦乱跳的。快睡觉的时候,小睿说,妈妈,我们把蚂蚱放了吧?我说,好阿,妈妈到后院去把它放了。小睿说,我自己放。平时小睿很怕后院的那一盏昏黄的路灯,但是为了去放蚂蚱,他似乎把这也给忘了。

以前写过类似的一篇“蝴蝶”,很多朋友跟我说,孩子太善良了,容易吃亏。你得训练训练使他的心硬起来,不是我们作父母的不愿意保护孩子的纯真爱心,是因为这个世界上对不起心太软的孩子的事情听得太多。我有时在想朋友的意见真的对吗?

KissingFrog
 保护好孩子的纯真善良吧. 不要让那些所谓的 "心硬"的论调打饶孩子的世界和成长. 我自己经历和观察, 现在才有点知道老子的"柔以克刚".其实, 心怎样看待世界, 世界也怎样汇报他, 心硬的人表面上看似乎挺威风, 但实际上遇到的阻力也大, 如此反复循环而已.善良但有原则, 有智慧,才是真正的强者.
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