我常常会揶揄我那傻儿子: 当妈妈老了的时候, 是住在你家还是姐姐家呢？ 如果你们的 wife or husband 不喜欢，妈妈还是自己住？
八岁时，儿子就说, 最好住在我的隔壁，我要给你买一个mansion.
并问我要几个 bathroom。
我说：妈妈一个人，一个厕所就够了嘛。
儿子却回答说：你还要开 party, 还有aunt (我姐姐）要来住，你需要三个厕所。
我问他：你哪儿有那么多钱呢？
他总是回答说：I will make big money, like one thousand, I will buy a mansion for you.. Sister will buy food for you!
那你长大了想干什么？
儿答到：I want be a police or FBI.
除了贝比时，儿子总把自己当成电视录像里的男主角：王子，Superman, 各路英雄好汉之外，Police or FBI 就一直是他崇拜的偶象，直到今天还没改变.
说起wife or husband, 我的一双宝里宝气的儿女有过如此的讨论：
儿子八岁， 女儿十三。
儿子：I don’t know if I will get married, I don’t have any girl likes me yet. I have a crush on a girl, but she doesn’t know.
女儿：You are too little to think about marrige now. You don’t know what love means. That is not love, but likeness.
儿子：I’m worry how I could do if my wife is bad, should I divorce her?
女儿：Go find a christian, stupid?
儿子：I could not divorce, even I don’t love her anymore?
女儿：You should be responsible for your family, not only yourself.
这个话题太大了，我也不知如何回答，就暂且让姐姐教教弟弟的责任心吧。至于具体的问题，等他长大了，自有智慧明断。
