一不小心挖了个大坑,挖完了出去遛弯去了,

和儿子遛弯的机会过一天少一天,所以珍惜,呵呵。

是推是放,比哈姆雷特的者明问题还不容易,属于无解命题,不是俺讨论的中心(Just in case anyone cares to know, 俺家俺绝对是放派)

俺只是体会那个妈妈的苦心,看的出她很心疼孩子,才到这里求助。Lisa说的很多东西,有道理但是我看来不一定实用。现在的大学录取,说是考虑综合实力,那是你达到一定分数线以后,因为成绩里都很perfect,学校再看其他的,尤其是亚裔,成绩都很出色,如果分数这么低,肯定是吃亏。所以这个妈妈主要是问提高成绩的方法。

至于Lisa说的去UCB做Volunteer,更是不实际。我们南湾过去要一个多小时的路,十几岁的孩子如果父母都上班,交通就是个问题。音乐体育南湾的孩子人人都奖杯一堆,相信他家也不例外。

至于你说没有必要上最好的高中,这是一个双刃剑。上好学校主要是为了他的peers。差学校你的成绩相对好些,可是会有各种问题比如GANGS. 男孩子受影响太容易了。

这个男孩主要亏在初中换环境。别针去年暑假去北京,我也给他报了summercamp,去了一天就不去了,说那些孩子都笑他说话,笑他的中文名字英文名字。我也听说过海龟的孩子去国内学校,每天哭着回来,半年后转到国际学校了事(这个孩子说中文没有问题,只是读写不好)。语言的适应对孩子没有想象的容易,尤其是敏感的孩子。

说来说去,可能我们这个地方特殊一些。不过牛哥说的对,以后人口越来越多,加上全球化,竞争哪里都激烈,父母的责任很重,只说“希望孩子高兴就好”大概是不够的。

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