我中等程度地blue了一把.
时不时总是想哭. 比如,老公笨手笨脚,帮忙不到位,我急了,就对他厉声厉色.
他在医院看护我时紧张的满地儿打转, 一刻也不消停地坐会儿, 我嫌他帮不上忙,还浪费体力,又心疼他,又恨他. 现在明白了, 为什么有孩子都婚姻是一个很大的考验,
人在极度疲劳和压力下, 很难讲道理, 很难graceful,两人都会露出最ugly,最无能的一面. 如果婚姻不牢固, 要孩子真是会使婚姻破裂.
头几个夜晚, 我由于刚从医院回来, 睡觉节奏没有调整好, 夜里看孩子非常痛苦, 加上我手腕一抱孩子就剧痛, 每次喂奶乳头都钻心的疼, 对着孩子都心情极遭. 婆婆白天做饭, 抱孩子, 夜里看我搞不定,还起来帮我抱孩子,让我睡几个小时. 看着婆婆那么疲劳, 但是深夜抱着孩子还时时有笑容,我百感交集, 眼圈总是湿.
真难以想象那些有不止一个孩子的女人, 那些有双胞胎的女人, 还有单身做母亲的女人是怎么熬过这一段的 (我觉得谁要是考虑未婚生子, 一定要多想想, 一个没有男人爱和支持的产妇简直太难了)...
更早些的年代, 没有纸尿布的时候, 没有nursing bra, 没有medela pump, 还在却吃少穿的年代的时候, 那些有不止一个孩子的女人, 还要洗N多的尿布, 而且要自己烧热水, 我简直想像不出是怎么handle的. 我一个手抱孩子调调奶粉都,手腕疼的不行.
我奶奶从17岁开始生了九个孩子. 我老公的外婆生了5个儿女,而老公的外公因工作常年在外地.
这么痛苦的过程, 怎么很少听各个女人提起过呢? 女人真强大啊!
坑,你们生完孩子都blue来着没? 怎么没听有人提起过?
试霜 发表评论于
俺一点也没有blue. 可能因为是顺产, 恢复很快. 另外, 父母都从国内过来帮忙, 每天好吃好喝的伺候, 我只管宝宝就行了, 白天还能偷空睡几个小觉. 多年没享过的清福啊! 另外, 不用上班也是挺好的, 身体劳累, 但脑子轻松, 快乐. 你现在应该好了吧? 当妈妈肯定是很开心的事.:-)
贴心宝贝 发表评论于
问老大好！咱生了两个都大大的blue了一回，看什么都不顺眼，什么事都想哭，身边也没个帮的人，要不，看我都怕了。月子里注意休息，孩子抱多听说会关节痛，而且不抱就不睡啊。
what_name_to_use 发表评论于
Just saw your baby girl's pictures, she is funny and cute.
The first few months are very hard for the new mother since her boby is very week and needs to recover. I had back pain for two years after childbirth, and I don't even want to think back about the sleepless nights and kids crying.
But we human are very resilient. You will forget about the pain soon and you may want to have your second child.
Take care. Try not to cry or use computer since they may do harm to your eyes.
The first few months are very hard for the new mother since her boby is very week and needs to recover. I had back pain for two years after childbirth, and I don't even want to think back about the sleepless nights and kids crying.
But we human are very resilient. You will forget about the pain soon and you may want to have your second child.
Take care. Try not to cry or use computer since they may do harm to your eyes.
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