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We have a database-driven ecommerce website composed by classic ASP. The site grows fast and we have more and more traffic. Unfortunately, the site was disabled last night by GoDaddy and we have huge loss today. GoDaddy states our site made too much overload on their shared hosting server and occupied most of the server RAM. They suggested us to upgrade to dedicated server. We actually have been eager to upgrade to the dedicated server for long time but always hesitated to do that. We know programming and web site construction very well, but no knowledge about SQL database installation and server configuration. If we use dedicated server, we have to install MS SQL database and administrated the database by ourselves, which we don\'t think we have the ability to deal with, so we chose the shared hosting service since the start just because they provide 3 SQL databases per account. We already used the premium service of shared hosting at GoDaddy. Seems we have no way to go further except to the dedicated server. Does anybody know other good hosting servers which provide high bandwidth especially ample database connections for traffic-intensive website? GoDaddy only allows 150 simultaneous database connections, which is far below our requirement. Ccan you guys suggest us companies who handle dedicated server configuration and SQL database installation or give us some links about this topic? So far, we have no clues at all.