Doc, let me get this straight; a. You are politely showing me the door (meaning: you are kicking me out from your blog, and bar from further writing). b. All this time, you believe my comments are fundamentally pointless, misleading and irreverent c. You were implying that I may be a gutless coward in certain realm. :)
That ought to hurt, and it is also a cruel and unusual punishment in my opinion. :(
But, for the sakes of your pts, your career, your health and the day you’ll wear the gown to give your proud speech. I think that I just have to bite the bullet to allow you have a peaceful mind. fair enough ?
纵然平行, you complain that we are no longer able to express our feeling straight from heart, so here is my suggestion: how about start from your own post?
next time, save the effort of laying out those irrelevant words, just say what you want to say. express your true feeling here and stop hiding behind those long paragraph.:)
心湖 发表评论于
落花, 别觉得难过， 你们俩为这段感情所付出的努力一定会得到回报的。I had been through long distance relationship, too. It's bittersweet. Now, we just enjoy everyday together.:-)
愿有情人终成眷属!
Congratulations on your graduation and your parents' coming! No matter what you do, how busy you are, as long as your parents are with you, they will feel happy. Just cherish every moment you have with them. (I couldn't go
back to your last posting, because it makes me cry.)
Wish warmest wishes!
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回复蔓穗草的评论:
Sorry, I did not mean to hurt your feeling. 也祝你快乐，蔓穗草！
也许很多看过落花的文章的未婚男士们希望她未嫁。“恨不相逢未嫁时“。呵呵
落花，原谅我和蔓穗草的调侃。我们都希望你能幸福！
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Sometimes, I think love is really strange thing. It redefines its meanings, shapes and colors constantly although the allure is still as fresh as day one.
Last Friday morning, after I was having a conference call in one of my colleague office, she showed me a Valentine’s card she received from her son, a 6 years old boy. The card reads “Dear Mommy, I want you know you will be ALWAYS my Valentine in the Whole Wide World!!!!”, there was a big red heart following the slant sentence. While I was admiring the little boy’s affirmative wording , I was joking with her “Vow, your son used the “A” and “W” words , this is really something.” “Yes, isn’t he cute?“, my proud colleague chuckled and added, “but, I bet , I’ll be out of window when he turns into a teenager.” We both laughed out loud. Chances are, my colleague’s instinct would be right.
I remember that in the mid of 90’s , I graduated from an university. Technically, then I was still a teenager, my view about love was in the period of “Romeo and Juliet” ( The moment Romeo and Juliet lay eyes on each other, that is it. Their fates are tied together eternally.) At a celebration party, I played my guitar and sang Bryan Adams‘ song “Straight From The Heart” (I chose that song to play because my classmates and I were about to leave our college years behind to make anther start in our life. I also liked the song’s tempo and acoustic sonority). The song was a crowd pleaser as I had expected, but with a twist. The strokes on the strings and my voice not only bought out girls’ tears but guys’ glassy eyes as well after they made me to play three times on the roll. Probably, I was only one didn’t get sentimental. But, boy, little I knew or prepared for the real world that I was about venturing out into can be very different from expectations, the love I hungered can be a double edged sword. The tough choices made can tear one apart.
The strange thing is when we grow, the definition of love would also grow and so does complexity. For one thing, we are no longer able to express our love straight from our hearts as a little kids do because the constrains and reality we have to face and accept. As a result, “West Side Story” becomes merely a tale on the stage.
