以前约会见过几个老白男人，感觉不会再去惹他们，尤其是有儿女的，即使儿女已成人。 比如去餐馆吃饭，这个老白会和 waitress 谈论他的儿女，兴高采烈的and sincere. It just totally shot me down and I don't feel any connection to that old guy. I am single and have no children.I just can't stand it.Am I selfish, the answer is probably yes.有儿女的老白男人他们的心不会在你身上，当然他们的大钱你也甭想。Nothing holding us together.
