Officer: Tell me what happened.
Driver: I was looking at the topless woman driving a red car
Passenger 1: No. It's blue.
Passenger 2: I believe it's black.
Passenger 3. You're all wrong. It's definitely white.
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解释一下什么是“强奸文化”:
资料:Rape Culture
A rape culture is a complex of beliefs that encourages male sexual aggression and supports violence against women. It is a society where violence is seen as sexy and sexuality as violent. In a rape culture, women perceive a continuum of threatened violence that ranges from sexual remarks to sexual touching to rape itself. A rape culture condones physical and emotional terrorism against women as the norm.
In a rape culture both men and women assume that sexual violence is a fact of life, inevitable as death or taxes. This violence, however, is neither biologically nor divinely ordained. Much of what we accept as inevitable is in fact the expression of values and attitudes that can change.
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谢谢老姐的支持!
我在给“名词解释:“骚扰”(by 悟空孙)的博客留言如下,顺便转帖:
对于许多人来说,男女平等似乎仍旧是个非常难以掌握的概念。
上海地铁的告示基本上相当于那位加拿大警员说的话,大意就是:性骚扰,强奸等等对于女性的暴力,起因是女性的穿着。这是典型的责怪被害者的心态。所以引起了环球各地的男女老少上街游行,所谓“slutwalk”--“荡妇”其实是反话反说。类似于当年英国军队用“扬基杜德”(美国土老冒)来嘲笑美国着装不齐的军队,可是美国佬却拿来我用,索性自称“扬基杜德”,大有我是流氓我怕谁的气势;以致如今“扬基杜德”都唱成了爱国歌曲了。
上海女性用“我可以骚,你不能扰”的口号,实际上是“荡妇游行”的中国体。她们穿着清凉,实际上是在表达一个看法,make a statement.这个看法就是,用女性的衣装来做借口,为对于女性的暴力(性骚扰和强奸等等)来开脱罪责,是行不通的。性骚扰是犯罪,与女性的任何着装方式都没有关系,而与信奉男尊女卑的rape culture有关。你不能拿女性的衣着作为性骚扰的理由和借口,而把性骚扰的罪行起因怪罪到受害人身上。