昨天女儿给喜欢的男生写条子被抓， 我很不好意思地在老师发的warning note上签了字。
今天问她， 那个男孩知道了吗？ 她说， 当然不知道， 条子被老师收走了啊。
那你还想告诉他吗？
why not? you think I am going to give up?
我晕。
想了想， 这么花痴，该怎么引导啊？
你确定他也喜欢你吗？
有一些确定， 但不是百分之百。this feeling has been going on for two years.
要是他被你的bold move吓到了，以后再也不敢和你说话了呢？
oh? why?
what if his friends find out and start to mock or joke on him? what if he feels embarrassed?
I dont care.
you dont care how he feels?
mama, things changed, it is not like when you were young, OK? nobody feels embarrassed just because someone likes you.
我真不知道这个世界变得这么快。
换个角度再劝
I think the best way to handle it is to do it subtly. You can find chances to talk to him, share something with him, ask for help or play with him, so both of your feelings can grow natually and smoothly. If you take this bold action, you may scare him away or make each other feel awkward.
why?
boys usually dont like girls to be too aggressive
why?
because millions of years ago, men are hunters , women are gatherers. that is the way we are,
说着说着， 就进入人类学了。 我还是很善于引导的吧？
